Gay Cruising is certainly a great activity to enjoy once in a while. But if you are a gay or lesbian, sometimes it would be too hard for you to pick the right cruising activity where prying eyes won’t be on you. Ever since gay cruising was created, this has opened a big amount of hope for LGBTQ’s to be themselves. And without being degraded because of the type of preference they have. We have put together some gay cruising tips to help make your cruise one of the best!
There are lots of cruise ships that cater to gay cruising and this is surely a great news for gays and lesbians to find love, be with their loved ones. Or just mingle with the people with the same sexual orientation.
What’s In Store for You On An All Gay Cruise?
Well, if you are thinking that a gay cruise is all about towel-whipping, gay butt-slapping, or wristband-wearing activities. Then you can put all those thoughts aside.
Gay cruising is all about enjoying yourselves. Finding peace and comfort all at the same time without any discrimination. It’s like leaving all your troubles away with the real life and enjoying a dream vacation that you have been wanting all your life.
Gay cruises are equipped with the same luxurious rooms, variety of mouth-watering foods, on board activities. And drinking and gambling activities that you just can’t miss.
How to Choose a Good Cruise?
These cruises, offer drag shows, MAGs Nights and gay comedians to keep you entertained and as well as a whole lot of parties and theme nights. So, whether you are there to enjoy or spend some quality time with your loved one. You will surely find the peace and serenity that you are looking for.
Gay Cruising Tips
Now, if you have finally chosen to join a gay cruise. Here are some tips that will help you find the cruise that is just right for you.
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Choose a comfortable accommodation for the duration of your cruise.
If you are dealing with a motion sickness problem, then choosing a room at the center of the ship is recommended. If you are claustrophobic, then do not choose a room that is too small for you. And of course, if you love to breathe in the fresh sea air, then you will surely enjoy the rooms located towards the exterior of the ship.
In the event that spending grants, book a lodge with overhang. Having a peaceful spot to escape to, particularly on the off chance that you have a lodge mate can truly make an incredible get-away that much more pleasant.
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Make sure the ship is the right size
Choose the size of the ship. If you want your cruise to be more peaceful, then it is better that you choose a cruise that accommodates two thousand people below only.
Now, if you wanted to mingle in with a much bigger crowd and a whole lot of amenities, then you can choose the larger ships.
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Know if the cruise offers some alternatives for recreation.
This is recommended if you wanted to enjoy your cruise to an extent. You can join in some excursions or bus tours for some added fun and enjoyment.
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Don’t Over Pack
You won’t have a great deal of storage room in your lodge so don’t over pack and utilize delicate sided or collapsible gear. Pack a lot of individual things, similar to sunscreen, individual ointment, condoms and movement ailment pills.
In spite of the fact that they’re accessible on board, the determination might be constrained and the costs high. As are different necessities like memory cards and batteries.
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Bring Your Music
Load up your telephone with your most loved playlist, and bring speakers as lodges have TVs yet for the most part no wellspring of music.
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Check What is On
Peruse through the journey agenda for uncommon occasions and gatherings like the “White Party,” “Mardi Gras Party,” or “Undersea Party.” Pack things relating to these subjects. You may think it appears to be senseless, yet basically everybody spruces up for each occasion.
Knowing all this stuff will surely be easy for you to find a cruise that meets your needs as much as comfort and enjoyment is concerned. So, if you wanted to enjoy gay cruising to a maximum level all you have to do is to invite your friends. Or plan this activity with your partner.
Expect extreme fun and activities while on board Gay Cruising.
Craigslist for Gay Sex!
All of the best how-tos and don’t-dos are included in this article series.
I include some of the lingo, posts to stay away from. And how to get through the best responses in Craigslist personals section during your search for anonymous gay anal sex.
First, you need to understand that Craigslist is perfect for gay people.
Straight people have it way easier than gay people in most aspects. They can get legally get married. Aren’t hated by many religious groups and each of their days seems to pass smoothly. When it comes to getting anonymous online sexual hook ups, gay men have it much easier than straight men.
Most women just don’t go looking for anonymous casual sex like men do. Probably because they can get it fairly easily if they’re looking for a man. So while there are sections for straight people, even for a casual encounter they will be likely expecting dinner and appearance before sex.
Reason so many straight men indulge their bi-curiosity on Craigslist
They simply get fed up looking for women only to get scammed over and over again.
Most posts by men under ‘men are looking for women’ section go ignored or are only answered by hookers and webcam girls. Women actually looking for sex on Craigslist really aren’t the type to socialize beyond a certain point or even know to look past a certain aesthetic level.
It is not impossible to meet an attractive woman on craigslist. But it is 99% difficult. Don’t expect success on your first try, your second or your third. In the meantime, there are plenty of gay guys on ‘men are looking for men’ section who might be happy to take care of your needs.
And you don’t even have to make them the dinner.
Secondly, it is important to know the craigslist terminology.
We live in an age of abbreviated words and phrases, mostly due to the internet, which is still something new for many of us.
There are several craigslist shorthand terms. But I’d say these are some of the essentials.
- NSA means No Strings Attached.
- DDF means drug and disease free.
- M4M encounters mean men for men encounters.
- HWP is Height/Weight Proportionate.
- ISO mean is In Search Of.
After you learn the lingo everything is easy.
It’s really just about making a post, including a picture and waiting for men to send you a message. Having a picture on there is really important. As a lot of people ignore submissions that don’t have photos.
By the way, if there is one Craigslist abbreviation that you want to avoid, it would be PNP.
PNP, in Craigslist terminology, stands for “party ‘n play”
Stands for sex while high on drugs. If you’re a bottom, one of the problems hooking up with drunk or gay men under drug influence is that they last long. Drugs prevent them from finishing quickly.
So they can fuck you, turn it over and then fuck you even harder until the condom literally breaks. Then you’ve just had unprotected intercourse with a junkie.
- A thing to keep in mind is that anyone using a random capital letter T in an ad is looking to get high. For example: LeT’s have sex tonighT mean let’s get high and fuck all night
Looking For Generous Men Means Prostitutes
Another third and important thing on craigslist is that people who are looking mostly for generous men are prostitutes.
Whenever you see an ad on craigslist advertising someone looking for “generous men” or just “gen,” it can only mean that the person is a prostitute. And “generous” is just a code for “give me money.
Age is important
But if there is one place where it can be ok to lie about age, its craigslist. If you’re 25 and look 25, then post your real age in your ad.
But general Craigslist rule is that you post as the age you think you look like, not the age you actually are. It’s not like you want to show to strangers your ID anyway. One time that is not okay to lie about your age is when you’re underage and posing as an adult. You can ruin someone’s life that way or get in trouble.
Lying about your race also is ok sometimes.
For example if you’re a Latino but you look more like a European guy for example, just say white in your ad. Aesthetics are about visuals not about facts. This isn’t a survey so post what you look like. Not necessarily what you really are.
Sadly, when using craigslist one must expect that a lot of people won’t show up to their dates or be all that reliable. Lots of people get off on the thrill of setting up an anonymous sexual encounter. But while they get turned on by the thrill of this search they often have zero intention of actually meeting.
Or maybe they freak out at the last minute. Whatever the reason, it happens a lot. Most of the times these people never have the courtesy to even email you or text you with a simple sorry.
Craigslist is a game.
For every sexy gay man you might meet you may get a fun time or equal numbers of people not showing up.
Just know this fact when writing an ad on craigslist. It never stops being annoying. But it helps you to get ready for the real arrangements that can offer you sweet time. If you’re really looking to give this a try, assume that everyone is just as nervous as you are.
Craigslist is a great place for gay men to find other men for anonymous gay sex.
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