When you have a woman in front of you in a webcam, it’s obvious that you are distant from each other. You’re not in the same physical location. Maybe she’s just down the street from you, but you’re not in the same room. This is, of course, what makes cam entertainment so awesome because you can watch all sorts of chicks from the privacy of your room.
For example, if you live in the heartland of America, in Nebraska or Iowa, you can watch in one second, hot Filipinas from Quezon City taking off their shit in front of you fingering away, and then you can click a button, the next moment you see a hot, long haired exotic chick from Bangkok, Thailand twerking who is working some lucky guy’s dick. You then click another button, and you’re in the Ukraine and you see some Eastern European flaxen-haired beauty sucking cock like it contained the cure for cancer.
You have the world under your fingertips when it comes to adult entertainment through the cam girl format. With that said, it’s too easy to just get taken in by the technology and look at it really as just one giant fucking remote control where you just click from channel to channel and hope that somehow, some way, there’s a cam girl there that would connect with you and you would have a great time.
Let me tell you that is the wrong way to do it because you can keep on clicking, but if you do not know how to get a cam girl excited, you are going to be disappointed. Seriously. Even if she’s there with 5 guys banging her, essentially spit roasting her with one guy in her mouth and the other guy up her ass and another dude drilling her pussy, it still won’t be the way you want it to be because the whole premise and promise behind cam girl entertainment is that it’s live and works with such a powerful two-way direct interaction dynamic that it is a very personal form of entertainment.
But none of that happens because you think that this is like watching cable channels. You’re just switching from channel to channel and hoping that one chick would be performing the exact same way you want. It’s not going to happen.
So you have to take the initiative. You have to put in some work. Now it doesn’t have to be a lot of work, but it requires some initiative on your part. What complicates this is that it’s not just a simple matter of dangling a dollar bill in front of her. It’s not like that famous Nirvana cover of the dollar bill on a hook and a baby in the water.
You have to get in there. You have to reach out. You have to get out of your safe space, go out on a limb and make it happen because, ultimately, it’s about you. It’s about your enjoyment. It’s about you getting what you came for, and unfortunately, that’s not going to happen if you assume a passive attitude about this. That’s why we have teamed up with the cam girls from Masturbate2gether! to deliver some amazing ways to get your cam girl excited.
Get Her to Occupy the Same Emotional Space
So what works to get a chick excited? Well, the same pick-up methods that you use to get a live woman in front of you excited.
If you have your girlfriend in front of you, what makes it fun is because you are in the same emotional space. Now, this cannot be assumed. Just because the chick is your girlfriend or your wife, it doesn’t mean that you’re automatically in the same emotional space. You have to get her or invite her to be in that same space like FkdPanda.
So how do you do this? You compliment her, saying, “Hey, I love your dress” or “Those are awesome panties, where did you get them?” You see what happened there? You call her attention and then you talk about something that is special or particular to her.
And you get her to engage because you asked her, “Where did you get them?” It’s not like, “Hey, nice panties” or “hey, I love the shape of your pussy.” It’s a one way direction. Sure, it’s a compliment and a lot of women can be gratified by that, but it goes one way. There has to be an opportunity for a two-way dialogue. That’s how you get her to occupy the same emotional space.
What you’re doing here is you are tapping. That’s what pimps say. When they’re trying to connect with a new prostitute that they want to work for them, it’s called tapping. So they basically try to get them in the same emotional space because chicks that cannot be pimped know the trick, so they won’t be tapped.
So you have to adopt a little bit of this. Of course you’re not trying to recruit a chick for your fleet here. Instead, you’re just trying to get the cam girl excited, but it’s still the same dynamic.
Mention Her Name A Lot
From my experience as a wing man, you know what a wing man is? It’s that nerdy friend that guys who get pussy all day, every day, bring with them. I’m kind of like the ice breaker.
So just like a ship going to the arctic that needs this huge metal unit in front to crack the ice so that the actual ship in the back gets the action, I’m that guy. I’m all nerdy and socially inept, but the good news is that from time to time, like that small fish that usually travels with a large shark or whale, I do get scraps of meat. I also get a lot of information from my friends who get pussy like it’s magnetic.
One tip that I can share with you is that if you mention a woman’s name a lot, but naturally, it doesn’t look forced, she can’t help but be attentive to you. She can’t help but be drawn to you because as Dale Carnegie, the author of How to Win Friends and Influence People wrote, a person’s name is the sweetest sound in the world to them.
So mention her name a lot. You would be surprised as to how effective this is. Now, keep in mind that cam girls generally use aliases, but sometimes, if they’ve been using it for so long, it functions like their real name.
Show Her You’re Paying Attention To What She’s Saying
The worst thing that you can do is for a chick to talk to you back and forth and she’s saying, “Ah yeah, I went to this junior high and I love skateboarding, lollipops, that kind of stuff.” and then you just say all of a sudden, “Jam your finger up your pussy then use the vibrator to orgasm!” or “Take off your lingerie!” What a dick, you know? What an asshole move. Don’t do that.
Show her respect by paying attention to what she’s saying. And it’s not just a question of basically virtually nodding or giving her a thumbs up icon or some bullshit emojis. I’m talking about asking a question or saying a comment that basically encapsulates or speaks to what she just said because she feels validated. She feels that she’s a human being and that she is deserving of respect when you do that.
Because, again, women are drawn to attention. And if it’s obvious that you are just trying to get her attention just so you can see her do all sorts of stuff, something gets lost in the translation. She doesn’t get as excited as before. Sure, she’d do it because that’s her job, but the heat is not going to be there.
Also, make it a point to thank her. This separates you from the rest of the guys that watch her, and this can go a long way in personalizing the experience. At least you stand out from the other guys that she normally deals with.
Let’s face it, most guys are sexual pigs. It’s all about them. It’s all about getting pleasure from women. It’s kind of like jerking off to porn, you know? It doesn’t matter whether you’re jerking off to a blonde chick today or it’s going to be brunette the next day or a redhead after that because, ultimately, it doesn’t really matter. It’s all about you jerking off.
You don’t want to give that impression. By thanking her, you tell her that she is basically special. That she did something that was important to you.
Final Point
Let her know that you notice her unique mannerisms. For example, if the chick likes to part her hair a certain way or she flicks away her hair when she moves her head, tell her, “I really like the way you do that” or “I like the way you look to the side” or “You have beautiful eyes.” That kind of message lets her know that you’re not only paying attention to her, but that she’s unique to you and that she is worthy of studying.
You have to understand that all of these, as simple and small as they may be, add up to a lot because hey, we live in a strange world where we’re all basically disconnected, anonymous and ultimately, nobody cares.
Sure, our families care about us and it depends on your cultural background, they might care more or care less. But ultimately, we’re alone. So when we reach out of our circle of concern, as tightly drawn as it may be, we can create opportunities for amazing interaction, and that’s what gets women excited.
You have to understand that it’s your responsibility to yourself to make sure that the cam girls that you watch are excited. You have to take the initiative because if you don’t do it, nobody else will.
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