I beg your indulgence as I explain to you why a cuckolded lifestyle suits me, and why I am perfectly happy with it. When I explain to a few friends of mine about my cuckolding lifestyle, they react with shock and astonishment.
One thing I have always loved about the concept of evolution is that it always seems to bring out the best in us, and other species too.
As time goes by, human beings tend to break free from the artificial social prisons imposed by their fellow human beings. Which prevent them from expressing their true natural selves.
Cuckolded Lifestyle – A Sense of Freedom
You often hear of gay couples, lesbian couples as well other people of all sorts of sexual orientations speak of their sense of identity, release and freedom that they have discovered.
Has the world has gone crazy? Is it moral decadence? Certainly not. The concept of ‘coming out‘ is more of a resistance, a revolt or some kind of prison break.
I am sure you have also heard of cuckolding couples talk of their newfound happiness, unbridled ecstasy and contentment.
It is the same with me. Some say I am crazy. But many are those who have come to appreciate me for who I am.
And no, I am not judging.
Far from it. I only beg your indulgence as I explain to you why a cuckolded lifestyle suits me, and why I am perfectly happy with it.
My Partner is now happy.
Human beings are sexual beings. Women are just as sexual as men are, or probably even more. Many women talk of the sexual frustrations they endure at home.
In most cultures, the needs of women are treated as secondary to those of men. And when they seek help, they are advised to ‘persevere’.
Things are really changing now due to women empowerment and feminism.
I am not willing to go into the merits or demerits of both. But I have come to appreciate that I must do the things that make my wife happy.
Why should she, a high-flying, assertive and dominant leader at the work place switch personas when she comes home?
I find that absurd.
This is where many people, both men and women bury their heads in the sand. And live their whole lives pretending and unhappy as a result.
Most women are naturally insatiable and for them having one partner is impossible. Some are wired to be dominant. And some men simply like taking a back seat in a relationship.
This is why am happy with cuckolding.
We don’t have to live our whole lives as one big lie. So, we are happy being ourselves, and I am happy when I see my wife happy. That doesn’t mean that I live a sad, miserable life.
Nothing could be further from the truth.
I know you are probably wondering how that’s possible, which brings me to the next point.
I and my Wife Find it a Great Source of Pleasure.
Now most men will agree that they get both jealous and instinctively excited when their wives are given attention by other men. Numerous studies have proven this.
Why is this so?
The answer is that men are wired to compete and chase women. It’s only a natural phenomenon, which makes a man fiercely determined to please his wife.
The result is passionate intimacy for the couple.
All depending on how both of them handle the situation. The wife derives happiness from the man’s constant drive and desire to please her and the focus is shifted to their marriage.
Cuckolding has saved many marriages from collapse since sexual frustrations are no longer swept under the carpet.
Openness cultivates trust
This is one of the reasons a cuckolded lifestyle suits me and is essential to the happiness of a marriage. So cuckolding is a natural aspect of human life, and more and more couples are embracing it.
This healthy competition is what drives me every day, giving me great pleasure in the process. Perhaps we cause ourselves unnecessary pain by fighting our instinctive emotions.
It feels natural to us.
We have always been taught that a man is wired to have as many partners as possible, and that it is perfectly alright.
But perhaps what you didn’t know is that the same applies to women too. For them it’s a form of natural selection, the desire to get the best genes from the best male species.
This is why monogamy becomes unsustainable and divorce rates are skyrocketing.
More people are cheating on their partners.
And yet they are in a monogamous marriage. Isn’t that a case of applying double standards?
A married woman, after some time, will get used to the body of her husband and will want to become more adventurous. This is a fact which is true for men too, and that’s why marriages are breaking.
But this shouldn’t be the case if we are honest about our true feelings.
This is why I am perfectly happy with sharing my wife as long as she is happy. It sounds a bit excessive, but we have never been happier.
A cuckold a day shields a marriage from divorce
The earlier we realise this, the happier we will become.
If you have been keen enough, you will realise that I am trying to be honest with myself. It has made me incredibly happy and contented in the process. As I said earlier, I am not trying to judge anyone or any couple.
All I am doing is stating the fact that men and women are probably meant to have many partners. I sometimes wonder how one can be married to one partner for say, 10, 15, 20 or even 50 years for those who are lucky to live that long.
Life has got to be more exciting than that.
That’s why people are defying the traditions and daring to find happiness by fighting boredom and seeking adventure.
But marriages have unnecessarily suffered in the process. Sexual powers of men decrease with age, while the reverse is true with women. Again this is a way of nature pointing to us that we need to come out and live our lives to the fullest.
The above reasons why a cuckold lifestyle suits me are only mine.
But other cuckolding couples will identify with most of them.
So the next time you might be tempted to judge cuckolding as abnormal or evil, take a deep look in the mirror. You may just discover that innate desire to be free and to be happy.
And that life is too short to spend your days in make-believe.
I Love My Colorful Chastity Device!
Chastity Device
For quite a few days I was searching for something that can help me to stay away from sexual intercourse or other sexual activities. Though I tried several products, they didn’t work for me.
I was upset and depressed because I was desperately in search of something to protect my chastity.
But, finally my search got over when I recently came across a chastity device. I found it to be extremely useful because this fantastic device is specially designed for those men who want to abstain from sexual intercourse or other sexual fantasies.
It is just perfect for me and is absolutely what I was in search of!!
I love my Silicone Chastity Device and am fully satisfied with its role to abstain me from any kind of sexual act or intercourse.
What’s Special About It?
As the name suggests, it is a protector of chastity and helps to stay away from all types of sexual acts.
Coming in various colors and packed in an excellent way it made me stick my eyes to it for a very long time before I purchased it.
It consists of a plastic lock which is numbered uniquely and a padlock made of brass. When locked with the plastic lock, the metal detectors are not set off.
Advantage of the plastic lock
It has a serial number which doesn’t allow me to cut the lock without the knowledge and presence of my friend having the key.
In this case, the key holder has all the power and it prevents me from sexual activities like sex, masturbation and erections.
I found this extremely helpful as I wanted to stay away from sexual acts and after a lot of search and research I found this product.
Benefits of Using It
After using it for a few days, I observed that this device had the following advantages. It effectively helped me to stay away from all types of activities relating to sex.
This device comes in a well-packed box which is very attractive. I found it quite comfortable to use as it is made up of high quality material. It is aided with all the necessary equipment required thus saving me from spending more time on adjusting and using it.
Disadvantages of using a chastity device.
During desperate situations I had to struggle when I did not have access to the key in order to get rid of the lock.
But, from other perspective this drawback greatly helps me to stay away from doing any sex act even in a desperate situation.
Sometimes, it can cause allergy to the wearer but I did not have to face this problem. I am stating this problem on behalf of someone I chatted to on a forum who was complaining about this.
What I Loved about It
It not only comes with uniquely numbered locks for the key holder which is the essence of this product.
But it also comes with all the components like the Silicon Cock Cage and 5 rings measuring 25 millimetre, 37mm and 48mm respectively that are required for its proper functioning.
I personally love this product
Not only because I found it after a lot of struggle to get rid of my problems and it helped me to reach my aim of abstaining from any kind of sexual activity. But also because it is very helpful in a lot of other ways.
I used to suffer from an addiction to masturbate frequently. This chastity device helped me to get rid of that problem. It in turn improved my health and I also started gaining weight.
All the side effects which I was facing due to frequent masturbation vanished after a regular use of this product.
Simply, I love my Silicone Chastity device.
I greatly I recommend any one who is reading this review and wishes to abstain from sex to purchase this chastity device as soon as possible. Do this in order to enjoy a healthy life abstaining all kinds of unusual sexual acts like I did.
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