The 4 Types Of Men Every Woman Will Absolutely Love

4 Types Of Men Every Woman Is Attracted To

When it comes to attraction, women are drawn to certain qualities in men. Today, we’ll explore the 4 types of men women find irresistible and what sets them apart. Understanding these types can help you strengthen your appeal and build more meaningful connections.

I was hanging out with my friend and she suddenly turned to me and asked how we ended up with the same guy since we clearly have completely different ‘types’ of men that we are attracted to. It was a good question and left me thinking about it again this morning.

It seems to be strange but true. I only have a few close friends that I have seen in multiple relationships or been with while drunk Tindering, but they all seem to select the same ‘type’ of partner, whether emotionally, physically or a combination of both.

Ms. M

‘Slightly older immature man-child type with scruffy, hippy looks.’

Although this guy is fun loving and easy to take on a date is he really an ideal type? Oh, my sister from another mister definitely has a certain relationship ideal that she doesn’t want to let go of. I love her dearly, but once she has something set in her mind, she pursues it relentlessly. Not that that’s always a bad thing.

There seems to be a definite theme that runs through her long term choices. I remember having a pretty in-depth conversation with her over numerous cups of tea one afternoon where she painted the picture of her ‘perfect man’ and what their life would look like together.

I have seen her over the past 10 years, struggle to fulfil that vision, but ending up stressed and frustrated after not being able to turn her toad into a prince. This dating scene can quickly turn into a tragic relationship with a man child!

Ms. K

‘Same age emotionally unavailable type with rock musician looks.’

This girl is like the other, wilder half of me. Sometimes we laugh and debate about how we ever came to be in a relationship with our shared ex since we have such vastly different ‘types’. Her excuse is that she was young and drunk… and that I have no excuse because I was sober.

I always have a giggle when we drunk compare Tinder matches. All of her matches look the same. That aloof, arrogant, slim, tattooed, long haired, slightly scruffy look about them. Personality wise, they all seem to want to dive in to the deep end straight away. No long dates and loving notes, but straight in to a relationship, but as quickly as they jump in they’re just as quick to become ‘emotionally unavailable’ and/or controlling and manipulative.

Mr. A

‘Younger emotionally in need of rescuing, petite brunettes’

I’m going to start by saying that Mr. A doesn’t do casual very well. I love this guy like a brother and I have seen him at every stage of his various past relationships. This boy is the definition of an emotional white knight, swooping in to rescue the damsel in distress.

His 20-something love interests who all seem to look strikingly similar, carry the same personality traits as well. An innate inability to move on from their ‘type’ of abusive and destructive past relationships.

Me

‘Older refined men with beards and glasses’

In my youth, I didn’t really have a type beyond anyone showing interest in me. I have since discovered that self-esteem is key and that the whole of my Tinder and my IRL choices in men are the same since my self-awakening last year.

Prior to that moment in my life, I settled for almost any man who showed an interest and I settled for second best because I was under the impression that it was all I was going to get. Men who were emotionally immature and selfish, but also insecure to the point that they took advantage of my mothering nature. Looking back at my life choices makes me cringe.

Now it seems that I have fallen in love with men who know what they want from life. Men who are dominant, but secure enough to not be controlling. Not arrogant, instead they are self-assured. It also helps their cause that they are attractive too.

What do you think? Is there any truth to people having ‘types’ or is it just that our personality attracts certain people to us?

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5 FAQ About The Men Women Find Attractive

What are 4 traits of men women find irresistible?
Women often find themselves attracted to men who exude confidence, emotional intelligence, ambition, and humor. These traits stand out because they reflect qualities that suggest stability, maturity, and an engaging personality.

Why do women prefer confident men?
Confidence indicates self-assurance and the ability to handle life’s challenges, which many women find appealing. It’s a sign of emotional strength and leadership.

How important is emotional intelligence in attraction?
Emotional intelligence shows that a man can understand and connect with a woman’s emotions, fostering deeper communication and trust, key factors in lasting relationships.

What role does ambition play in attraction?
Ambitious men show drive and determination, qualities that suggest future success and stability, which many women appreciate.

Why is humor attractive?
A good sense of humor fosters a fun and relaxed atmosphere, making interactions more enjoyable and less stressful.

Author: Mia is a consultant from Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres

Jennifer Vermaunt

Jennifer is a marketer at Adultsmart! Embracing a non-judgmental stance, she believes in pleasure without limits—if it feels good and right, why not?

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