Anorgasmia is a medical sexual dysfunction that prevents orgasms in people. It is more commonly associated with women and in particular menopausal women. With the average female achieving orgasm in around 15-20 minutes and half that for men. It can sometimes be difficult to distinguish between anorgasmia or partner dissatisfaction. There are anorgasmia products that can help.
Anorgasmia is generally separated into three categories
- Primary – Where an individual has never had an orgasm.
- Secondary – Where an individual has had orgasms before. But something (menopause, stress, anxiety, depression, surgery, hormonal imbalances, MS), has impacted on one’s ability to achieve orgasm.
- Situational – Where an individual can only achieve orgasm under specific conditions or a certain type of stimulation.
Anorgasmia Products That Can Help
There are adult products available in online sex shops that are aimed to support people who have anorgasmia. Some sex products that will help women who are affected by anorgasmia include Arousal Gel ON for Her, Body Wands and Kegel Balls.
Arousal Gel
Arousal gels create stimulation on the clitoris. Studies have shown that clitoral stimulation is the most effective way to induce orgasm, although some women do respond well to G-spot stimulation. Arousal Gel for Her is one of the most popular clitoral gels on the market.
It is popular for several reasons
- Has one of the highest rates of effectiveness. Primarily because it uses entirely natural ingredients consisting of almond oil, cinnamon, rosemary oil and various other herbal extracts.
- Just a small drop of this liquid is placed onto the clitoris and within minutes will create a warming tingling effect.
- This effect increases blood flow and activates the various nerve endings within the genital region.
- Stimulation can last up to 45 minutes (with a single drop). Which is well and truly enough time to provide other forms of stimulation to hopefully bring you to an orgasmic bliss.
- This product comes in three different intensity levels ranging from lite, original and ultra.
- When the gel stimulates the clitoris with a hot sensation the body will naturally try to lubricate itself to.
Body Wand
The body wand, smart wands and Hitachi vibrators are one of the most powerful vibrators on the market.
Direct clitoral stimulation with one of these powerful motors can quickly bring on incredibly intense and powerful orgasm. Since the clitoris may be numb to certain sensations, you might need to use a stronger sex toy to combat the effect.
For some the vibrations can prove to be too much but there are other options available in this category. If the vibrator is too powerful, you can lower the setting. Or place a piece of cloth between your clitoris and the vibrator to make it softer. Have a read of our article about Hitachi vs smart wand.
Kegal Balls
These are a device that strengthen, tone and tighten the pelvic floor muscles. By tightening and toning these muscles, you can improve blood flow, bladder control and achieve more powerful orgasms.
Increasing blood flow (much like how the penis works) you’re activating the nerve endings which become more sensitive and aroused. Better the blood flow, the more nerves that are ‘switched on’.
Pussy Pumps or Clit Pumps
Females can also benefit from ‘vacuum devices’ such as vaginal pumps which are also known as pussy pumps and clitoral pumps. Both of which increase blood flow and can successfully enhance sensitivity and feelings of pleasure.
Often this method is prescribed by Doctors and counsellors as it is non-invasive and does not require the administration of medicines or herbs.
This method is termed ‘clitoral rejuvenation’ with the use of vacuum devices.
As mentioned previously, these ideas can be considered individually or used as a combination.
Remember that sex and pleasure should be a relaxed endeavor.
If you’re stressed, or in a situation where you’re not comfortable then this could impact on your ability to orgasm. You need to talk to your partner about your feelings. Work together on ways to overcome what you’re feeling.
It could be as simple as improving the level of intimacy and desire, or incorporating some fun and exciting sex toys into the bedroom. Most important thing to remember and consider, is that it is unlikely to be a failing of sexual ability. There are more often than not underlying causes.
It’s important not to place or even take blame on the partner. As this could lead to relationship issues.
For further advice, visit one of your local Adult Lifestyle Centres where any of our staff will be happy to assist you or provide different recommendations based on your unique circumstances.
By Stephen Smith – Consultant Adult Lifestyle Centre
Why is Porn Important?
Pornography is an aid to help people masturbate to relieve all their built-up tensions. But sometimes people can find it very difficult to masturbate. There are many reasons why people find it difficult to masturbate and why pornography is a helpful tool to help people’s sexual lifestyles which are both listed below.
Reasons Why People Find Masturbation Difficult
- Masturbation can be very difficult if you have anorgasmia.
- Some people have anorgasmia due to the medication they take. Medication’s which cause anorgasmia include anti-depressants and contraceptive pills.
- Since our minds are naturally aroused by visual stimulation. Some people can masturbate for a long time and never reach orgasm if they don’t have adequate mental stimulation. Sometimes or most of the time a good hand job or a good finger may not be enough to make a person orgasm.
- Men can get blue balls. Blue balls is when a man’s testicles become painful from not ejaculating for a prolonged period of time.
- Some people have the inability to imagine sexual scenarios in their own minds. Let’s face it, people think completely differently to the next person. You can see this from looking at the different types of learning styles people have. With this in mind, some people are really bad at imagining sexual scenarios in their minds. Normally people who find it hard to daydream about sex may find it difficult to read books to achieve orgasm..
We should all be in control of how we masturbate.
Solely we are responsible for our own masturbation and we should not rely upon other people to achieve orgasm.
Why Porn is Helpful
- Helps people view their secret fetishes whether it’s BDSM, a foot fetish or tentacle porn.
- People save time. Helps people quickly or slowly release their sexual tension.
- Helps people save money. Pornography can be watched over and over again. At Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centre’s there is an exchange program available which can save you money.
- Watching pornography can help people understand how sex and seduction works. There are various types of pornography including one’s that are available for education purposes. Educational DVDs can actually help people learn how to be better lovers.
- Watching pornography helps people explore their sexuality in a safe environment. You can use pornography in the privacy of your own home.
- If you feel unsafe approaching people with your sexuality. You can watch a lesbian, bisexual, transsexual, transgender, or gay DVD. See whether it will fit in with your type of lifestyle.
- When you find what you like, you will be able to pleasure yourself even better.
And There Are Even More Reasons!!
- Help prevent people from having unprotected or unsafe sex.
- Using pornography is just like using a sex toy. It is a sexual health aid that helps people produce orgasms.
- Couples can view porn together, to spice up their sexlife or help them when they are mutually masturbating.
- Porn is a sexual pleasure like chocolate is to food. We can spend time watching porn relaxing and unwinding just like if someone were to have a hot bubble bath.
- Also sometimes hilarious to watch. Sometimes people sit down and watch porn with a bag of popcorn because pornography is pretty unreal.
- Porn is not a reflection of your love life or relationship and is not a replacement for your partner.
You can feel amazing sexual relief watching pornography.
Without sex, life is incomplete.
Sex is one of the most pleasurable things we can experience in our own bodies. Just as sex toys can help us achieve different types of orgasms, pornography is used in the same type of way. But to help our mind visually recognize that we would like to orgasm.
Using pornography stimulates our minds in the same way as witnessing the real thing in front of us. People are becoming more influenced towards using pornography to meet their sexual needs. These products are safe, easy to use and provide full privacy.
There is a huge range of pornography
Made by many different companies from watching vanilla sex to the more extreme fetishes. A lot of porn also provides people with interesting movie plots that can be quite entertaining and memorable.
There are lots of online sites that provide these kinds of adult movies at very cheap rates. Almost everything is related to sex and it also contains adult movies of different varieties such as blowjobs, hand jobs, sex, etc. Which are mostly liked by people of every generation.
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