A Sex Bucket List is a great idea. Here are 8 Sex Bucket List suggestions to start you off!! Life is too short and there are so many exciting and erotic sexual experiences.
We may need a well-arranged schedule or a ‘to do list’ with rich content to get every single thing we like done. Like 100 movies to see before you die. Or 250 books to read before you die. This is generally called A Bucket List.
Speaking of a bucket list, there is also a movie named ‘The Bucket List‘ (2007) which can give an idea about what bucket list is.
Being used to seeing Morgan Freeman as “God” in his almost all movies or remembering Jack Nicholson as Jack Torrance from ‘The Shining’ (1980) might be the reasons I don’t like that movie.
Oops, sorry about digressing.
8 Sex Bucket List Suggestions
Bucket List #1 – Sex With a Foreigner
Imagine that you are online on Grindr/Tinder and somebody texts you with a Hi/Hey. You reply to them and the conversation goes like “Up to much?” “What are you into?” “Can you host?” etc. etc. I am OK with it, I do want to make an effort for a mind-blowing sex though.
Generally speaking, endeavour makes the things better. The first obstacle is find a foreigner. Easy! Australia is one of the best places in the world to find one.
To find a foreigner who does not know any single word in English in today’s world is hard. Almost all people outside around us can speak a few words in English and you can communicate with them somehow.
It is not impossible but you don’t normally see any profile saying that he/she doesn’t speak English on dating apps. You are more likely to find one in the street or, preferably, in a pub.
Let’s assume you get their attention and you are trying to have a conversation.
How would you tell them that you like them or you would like to have sex with them? Yes, there are some universal symbols or gestures for fucking but wouldn’t it be rude?
Those who are fan of Coupling knows how Jeff had a sad ending with the foreign girl. (Season 1 Episode 5; The Girl with Two Breasts, Coupling)
Use your all flirtatious skills to get him/her so that you can step into the third and the last one. Have unforgettable sex without hearing any single word from your own language. All you could possibly hear is groaning or a few words from their own language.
You may be curious about what they are saying, Once the power of body language is realised, it doesn’t matter at all!
Bucket List #2 – Sex With Someone Who Is Younger/Older
Experience means a lot, both in life itself and especially in sex.
There are people around your age who can offer you mind-blowing sex but have a real age difference. As long as they are over 18 it will completely change your point of view.
Wouldn’t it be a great opportunity to be a bridge for the esoteric knowledge of generations to flow?
Bucket List #3 – Use Sex Toys When You Have Sex
Try out some sex toys you’ve never used before like nipple clamps, butt plugs, strap-ons, bullets, leathers, paddles. These are the ones that come to my mind at first blush.
All other stuff in a sexual bucket list may seem frightening. But you can’t go wrong with a toy in your own bedroom with your partner (after getting their consent).
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#4 – Join the Mile-High Club
First of all, let me give the definition. The Mile-High Club is a slang term applied collectively to individuals who have had sexual intercourse while on board a flying aircraft.
Who wouldn’t want to have an earth-shattering orgasm at 30, 000 feet altitude?
Frankly saying, there is not much in solo session. Things will be quite different when you are two in that tiny bathroom. A second person doesn’t necessarily have to be your partner. He/she can be either a flight attendant or one of the passengers.
It is found that 15 % of participants of a poll of 1600 travelers had sex on a plane. This number increases to 21 % among flight attendants in terms of having a sexual intercourse with their colleagues. Whilst 14 % of them do so with passengers.
On the other hand, this is not a new thing actually.
A young aviator and a woman were rescued from a plane crash almost a hundred years ago. They were stark naked. I don’t like gossip but it seems like the Mile-High Club dates back to early 20th century.
If you really want to join that club, there are some precautions to be taken. Choose a long haul flight. Go to the toilet separately. A bit of attention and luck play an important role in this club.
Flight attendants can easily unlock the toilet doors from outside. Bear in mind some certain penalties may apply.
#5 – Record Yourself Having Sex
A lot of people love to record themselves while having sex.
Whilst filming yourself can be seen a bit weird, watching it with your partner may carry your relationship to another level. I am saying you and your partner because most people are afraid of doing this with their one night stand. They are not totally wrong.
Do this with a trustworthy person so that you will not stumble across your video on the Internet. Otherwise, Andy Warhol would be right since he said that “In the future, everyone will be world-famous for 15 mins.”
This is a whole different experience and completely a new approach to sex. It gives you an opportunity to see yourself during foreplay or penetration. You can understand what you do wrong and you can find ways to maximize your satisfaction.
Don’t get me wrong please, sex comes from our basic instincts and you can’t shape it by applying some simple rules. Once you look at yourself and assess you are more likely to realise that you have some things to change. To make both you and your partner happy.
In the best scenario, you feel like a porn star and enjoy what you did and what you saw.
#6 – Tie Your Partner Up Or Get Tied Up
This is another thing you would prefer to try with your partner instead of one of your one-night stands which is pretty understandable.
You may think that you can surrender to only your partner and this will increase your intimacy, it helps you build confidence between you and your partner at the same time. These are benefits to your relationship.
Besides, you can feel the mixture of heaps of different emotions in terms of sexual satisfaction.
#7 – Have Sex In Public
In this case, fear or thrill of being caught is the driving force. Just like most other people, we know how much powerful feeling fear is.
It can easily get you to do the most impossible things that you wouldn’t think about doing. On the other hand, the transition state of emotions from fear to relaxation after completing the mission can easily compensate it.
#8 – Create a New Sex Position
There are hundred and thousands different kinds of sex positions out there. Sometimes, you feel like none of them are for you. At this point, creating your own sex position will surely spice your sexual life up and give you unforgettable orgasms.
Feel free to create your own Sex Bucket List after reading this article. You may surprise yourself!!
Meet Rick, Adultsmart’s owner with 35+ years in the adult industry. A sex blogger, advocate for gender and sexuality equality, offering a diverse product range.
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