Financial Domination For Beginners

By definition Financial Domination is a sexual fetish, in particular a practice of dominance and submission, where in which a submissive will give gifts and money to a financial dominant.

What is it?

Financial domination is a sexual fetish in which the submissive involved feels sexual arousal in relation to finance being dominated, this can come in many forms.

In the financial domination world, a submissive may be referred to as: pay-pigs, slaves, cash-pigs etc. The submissive feels sexual arousal from the dominant, often referred to as Findommes, Mistress’, Goddess’, demanding gifts or money, controlling finance accounts, using a submissves credit card for purchases etc. It isn’t an exchange, it is a tribute to the dominant, a gift with no expectations.

But Why?

Many people are confused by the idea that sexual arousal can come from giving money away. If you think about it, countless people base their self-worth on their income, control that income and you can control a person’s self-worth. The arousal doesn’t just come from the act of giving a dominant money, it is the need to fulfill a dominants order or pay for a dominants dinner in order to keep her happy and interested. To have someone control or use what some people value more than anything is true loss of power. The power comes from the exchange, to make a person enter a zone in which you control their thoughts as well as their finances, leaving them emotionally, physically and financially powerless.

It’s not as easy as you think:

As financial domination is mostly done online without ever really needing to meet each other in real life, lots of time wasters and fakes are the main problem within the community. Anyone is able to make a twitter account, pop up some photos and start demanding money. Financial domination goes much deeper than this and it is hard to weed through fake subs and domes alike. A Findomme must know a lot about their subs: how much they make, how much a subs bills equate to, how much a sub can gift, sexual fantasies etc. Taking a position of power over someone and potentially their finances is a big responsibility and one must make sure they are equipped to deal with this emotionally and physically as their actions can directly effect a person’s life. You have to verify yourself to show you aren’t fake with a video or photo in most cases, so If you aren’t keen on your face being seen this might not be for you.

How to get started:

The best place to start in financial domination is online. I find the best sites are Twitter and Reddit. There are specifically designed websites such as Fetlife or Findoms which are like social media for fetishes and financial domination. Once on these sites you will quickly pick up the rhetoric of fake subs and dommes, make yourself stand out from the crowd. You aren’t there to beg or do something in exchange for money. Just giving your time to a sub is worth payment. Learn about the person you are talking to, likes/dislikes, wants/needs, all this information will be used later to help dominate. Remember, the better you are in your position the more rewards you’ll receive. As mentioned you’ll have to weed through time wasters, who will of course waste your time but don’t worry as it happens to the best of us, I like to think of every time waster I’ve had as a training session on how to avoid them in the future.

Receiving Payments/Tributes:

Financial Domination is typically done online through various platforms, so how does one receive tributes or money? It is never safe to give out your bank details to a stranger online, easy payment services making transactions quick and easy for both subs and domes.

Paypal: A commonly used and easy payment service, but beware, if Paypal becomes aware that you are receiving money for what they perceive as sex work they will freeze your account and any money in it and ban you.

Venmo: Probably the easiest and safest payment service to use, sign up online or via app on your phone. As far as I am aware they don’t discriminate sex work like Paypal does.

Cashapp: Another easy to use payment service, online or via app.

Choose a service that suits your needs, whilst many are similar if the subs you have don’t have a particular one you might lose out. These are three popular and common services within the community so take advantage.

Key Words:

Pay Pig: Is (usually male) a submissive who tributes to his mistress and/or buys gifts for her. Pay pigs get sexual arousal from the act of giving money/gifts.

Tribute: Is money or gifts given to a findomme. Tributes can mean different things to different people, but it is generally considered to be giving items/money to ones domme on a regular basis for nothing in return. A regular tribute to appease ones mistress, to show ones servitude.

Findomme: A professional (generally a woman) financial dominatrix

Happy Financial Dominating!! Good Luck!!