Urophilia, commonly known as urolagnia or in every day speak watersports or golden showers. A golden shower fetish is a well known fetish for all things pee!
It has come to be more mainstream recently due to a certain new world leader’s prediliction for golden showers. I am curious as to how common this particular fetish is, who does it and why.
Any fetish that has a technical name ending in ‘philia‘ means it is in medical terms the opposite of a phobia. It is an intense love or admiration for something abnormal.
Golden Shower Fetish – A Well Known Philia
This ‘philia is well known enough to have earned lots of nicknames.
It isn’t just a love of pee though as it is specifically linked to sexual arousal. There are a few more common themes. Usually wanting to wee on someone or wanting to be weed on.
Some just love watching people urinate or wet themselves. I had a boyfriend once who wanted me to wee when I had sex or while I orgasmed. Some people think that this is actually what squirting is.
There are even a few people out there that like drinking urine .
It was surprisingly difficult to find much information out there.
Considering it is something everyone knows about. It turns out it isn’t as commonly practiced as I thought.
There have been a couple of studies done questioning cross sections of society on their sexual fantasies. And that one was further down the list than having sex with animals.
It barely featured on any female radars at all. There was another study on what sexual practices people had watched and how excited it had made them.
Turns out lots of guys have watched urolagnia in porn movies
Or seen it in magazines but in general had to possess that fetish already in order to find it arousing. It wasn’t seen in the same way as say a foot fetish, which a lot of guys found arousing even though it wasn’t really their thing.
Fact is that the only studies around seem to be either case studies or surveys is testimony to the fact that it is very uncommon.
There certainly doesn’t seem to be any large scale study on the subject.
Because of that it is difficult to delve with into the whys and wherefores.
It is the same as most sexual turn ons though I expect. There will be a whole bunch of psychological reasons or experiences or even genes that come together for this type of person.
I see it most in the BDSM world.
Obviously, there is something humiliating to most people about this piss play and this play of power would definitely be a turn on for some. Being forced to drink a partner’s urine would be particularly debasing or dominating for the person doing it.
You even buy urine gags, a gag with a silicone urinal attached, so you literally become a human toilet. Same aspects of humiliation or embarrassment are present when someone wets themselves.
People with baby or nappy fetishes may love the physical and mental experience of really losing control.
Other people and I count my ex-boyfriend in this group
Many just like the thrill of trying something different and dirty. In the state of sexual arousal we are often a bit more open to trying things that otherwise we might find a bit gross.
There are also those out there who like to see any kind of fluid pour out of a sexual orifice. Could be a million different reasons a person might be into this and a million different types of people with the interest.
It isn’t a disorder unless it involves non-consent.
Same can be said of all sexual practices not only the more unusual ones. It used to be thought that urine is sterile and harmless. But that is not actually true.
It contains bacteria and unless you are with Bear Grylls on a survival mission, it shouldn’t be consumed in large amounts.
Having said that though, it is much safer than blood or semen and we don’t find it strange dealing with those fluids during sex. What might make it a little more risky is that if it is showered it is a little difficult to control the destination and could potentially enter cuts etc.
It isn’t something that often gets mentioned
Even working in an adult store it is a fetish I haven’t had a conversation about.
The whole Donald Trump Pee Tape Golden Showers thing, which in case you are living in a bubble has brought it to the fore front with #goldengate circulating Twitter. And everyone wanting to know the gory details about what happened.
He apparently watched prostitutes perform a piss show.
Although before you picture some kind of Las Vegas hotel fountain, I think it may just have been a prostitute wetting herself on the bed.
But that would be equally as thrilling for some.
Who knows? Maybe the whole episode will bring Urolagnia out in the open enough for someone to do some proper research into the subject so that I could have more to say on the subject.
Remember to always stay safe when participating in kink play!
Sex In The Shower Waterproof Mini Massager!!
A guy came into Adultsmart Lifestyle Centre today and said he just wanted to have a look around as he only had $15 spending limit.
He will be trying out his new Ovo cock ring tonight and thanking me I am sure.
Well, this had me thinking about what would I buy from the smorgasbord of delights that is available from Adultsmart if I only had $15.
I decided to put down a couple of rules for my challenge
It couldn’t be something that I needed like lubricants or stockings. And it had to be some sort of sex toy that would be able to make me cum with no one else’s help.
I knew I could get a plain old bullet but that wasn’t good enough and I nearly gave up and raised my limit to $20. But then I saw it.
Sex In The Shower Waterproof Mini Massager
It’s a long name I know but I was surprised that is was made by the well known company Sportsheets.
- A mini massager with four interchangeable massaging tips. I think it was the components that drew me to it as I felt like I was really getting a bargain.
- There are four massaging tips that go on the end of the vibrator in different textures.
- Smooth, smooth with raised flat circles, large spikes, and small spikes.
- Massaging tips are a small, transparent aqua coloured that match the plastic cylindrical vibrator.
- Only takes 1 x AA battery so I am not expecting miracles.
To be honest, I am not even expecting it to work
And I am not disappointed. It doesn’t, not just yet anyway – you need to put the batteries in first.
Then twist the Sex In The Shower Waterproof Mini Massager bottom into position. A light comes on, a bright light. It is clearly a torch, which is great I guess.
A torch that you can intimately massage yourself with in the shower.
Sometimes it can get dark in there
Especially if you have shower curtains hanging around. It doesn’t say anything about it vibrating on the package. I go to put it back and there is another one there so I decided to try that too.
It works, and it’s ok, well good in fact for one AA battery.
There are three metal nubs on the flat end of the cylinder which would feel really good on your clitoris. I am not sure you would even need the lids but I try each of the lids in turn and they do all feel different.
The lids are great if you mainly have clitoral orgasms so that you can change thing’s up.
They are made with hard ABS plastic. But when they are vibrating if you didn’t know, you would think the spikes were jelly. It’s a really strange illusion.
One Small Problem
There is a small problem with the Sex In The Shower Waterproof Mini Massager “multiple heads” idea.
They don’t all stay on properly.
I find that the more textured heads are very secure when you attach them. But the two that are more smooth don’t want to stay on at all. Smoothest, which is just a little rounded cap, won’t even give the ILLUSION of sitting securely on top of this thing.
It’s like the “sex in the shower” is forbidding me from making a “boring” choice.
The semi-smooth head would attach, and it seemed like it was somewhat secure. But it had a tendency to come off, which would only be worse in a wet shower.
Then I couldn’t even get the last one off at all. I thought the toy was going to break. That wouldn’t happen in soapy water though. For me sex In The Shower Waterproof Mini Massager would end up being used capless.
Not used as the manufacturers intended.
I think it is definitely $15 dollars worth of shower fun.
It would definitely make me come and it doesn’t even mention the fact that it is a torch too so you can find the caps in the dark when they fall off.
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