Looking for some romantic ideas that are sure to spice up your love life? Explore “non-toy” ways to enhance your love life with our Adult Smart products. Many customers seek new experiences with partners, some hesitant about using sex toys.
Explore non-intimidating romantic ideas and couples’ toys like the We-Vibe 4+ for enhanced intimacy. However, I also respect and provide alternatives for those who prefer not to explore this avenue, without judgment or pressure.
So here are a few romantic ideas to get you started. They are a jumping off point and you can get as creative (or not) as you like, really. Enjoy!
The Power of Relaxation
Life is stressful. With all of today’s pressures weighing on our shoulders it can sometimes be hard to get a break. For singles, casual sex may relieve stress; long-term couples might view intimacy as another pressure.
Consider a sensual massage to ease your partner’s stress and boost their libido. Clarify that intimacy doesn’t always need to culminate in sex. Rather, it is all about enjoying the closeness and enjoying the sensations of touch and just being in the moment.
Massage Oil Is Always A Good Romantic Idea
Try our best selling, multitasking-magic silicone lube SuperSlyde as a fantastic massage oil base. Unscented, customisable with your oils or left fragrance-free, ideal for those sensitive to smells. Ideal for those sensitive to smells, offering inclusivity in the aromatic world of massage. Superslyde, a versatile lube, puts you ahead in intimate moments with its superior quality.
Alternatively, if you prefer a more traditional, scented massage oil, you might just love Wildfire’s Pleasure oil. It comes in three different options and is infused with natural aphrodisiacs to really up the ante. My favourite is the Wildfire Black. Sweet, sultry, and decadent, it’s certain to push all the right buttons.
A third option for our romantic ideas you might just love is a massage candle. Massage candles melt into warm oil for safe, light BDSM play without burn risks. Light the candle, let wax melt, then drip the warm oil slowly onto your partner’s skin. Now work those stresses away as they submit to the healing powers of your strong, powerful caress. Ooh, I’m getting shivers!
What’s Your Flavour?
Now to take things up another notch with romantic ideas. Why not try adding a sweet treat to your play? We have many options in flavoured lubricants, which are always a hit when it comes to oral sex. Probably the biggest seller is Wet Stuff’s Salted Caramel flavoured lube.
I often get customers telling me how they would buy it just to put on their ice cream, it’s that delicious. The salted caramel flavour also just seems to mix well with the natural tastes of salty skin and the body’s own lubricant and ejaculates. We have a lot of other flavours in various brands too though if caramel doesn’t float your boat, everything from strawberry to pina colada!
Lick-able body chocolate is also an amazing product and fantastic for all the sweet tooth’s and chocoholics out there. Drizzle and paint your partner’s body, write your name, draw some sexy underwear on their naked skin and then lick it away. Yum!
The Game Of Love
Need some romantic ideas to get to know your partner better? Want to try some new, adventurous sex play but don’t know how to bring it up? Adult Smart stock a great range of fun games for couples, which are a lighthearted way to bring out your hidden desires and bring you closer together without the need for potentially awkward conversations. These games typically give various questions and challenges for you and your partner to explore together, so you don’t have to be the one to ask whether they’re interested in trying a 69 tonight. Just saying’.
Tell A Story
Few things are sexier than hearing your lover describe an erotic fantasy. Ask your partner to make up a wicked fairy tale to tell you at bedtime, or even easier, have them read you one of our delectable erotic novels or short stories.
We stock a wide selection of books and magazines at Oh Zone, and although the world of digital media has exploded in recent years, there is still something so magical about a real book whose pages you can turn, and drool over without worrying about short circuiting anything i might add… Yes, this is exactly what your inner sexy librarian ordered! (Yes, Buffy fans, Spike and Angel were hot, but you have to admit Giles did have the brains, the books, AND the sexy English accent… he could read to me any time.)
Dress Ups
Everybody loves dress ups. Well, OK, I love dress ups, but I know a lot of you out there do too! Even if you yourself don’t like to dress up, I bet you don’t half fancy it when somebody else is doing the dressing up (and then down…) for you 😉
Here at Adult Smart we stock a wide range of costumes and fabulously sexy lingerie. So who do you dream of being in your wildest, hottest fantasies? A naughty nurse? A sexy cowboy? A wickedly witchy sorceress of love??? Dressing up can be a great way to enact a fantasy, and you don’t have to be good with words to do it.
Sometimes the thought of dirty talk or telling someone about our fantasies can leave us feeling tongue tied, but a picture paints a thousand words, and you’ll be leaving them in no doubt when they feast their eyes on your hot, sexy alter ego. Wearing a costume can be so freeing and really bring out sides of you that even you might not have realised were there! So have fun, get creative, or start simple with a sexy black garter and fishnets and see where it takes you. xx
Meet Rick, Adultsmart’s owner with 35+ years in the adult industry. A sex blogger, advocate for gender and sexuality equality, offering a diverse product range.
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