How to Have Safe and Satisfying Virtual Sex

With the popularity of the internet and because of social distancing in the past, the question in everyone’s mind was how do you have Satisfying Virtual Sex.  But it doesn’t have to be the same with the intimate distance as well. There are many ways to get close and enjoy your time together, especially when it comes to a romantic relationship. If you search online for adult content, you’ll find thousands of results that offer the best online sex experience. 

Of course, you’ll need a webcam to make the experience even more enjoyable. For that purpose, we decided to present to you the endless dating or casual sex opportunities where you can find beautiful girls for fun, private shows, and a lot of video content to see.

Find Reliable Sites for Satisfying Virtual Sex

The first step in the process of having virtual sex is to find the right sitefor your needs. There are a lot of porn and cam sites that offer different types of content, with any type of girl of your liking, so you’ll need to make good research to find the right fit for your needs.

Sometimes a plain search on Google is not enough, you’ll need to read more about the terms and conditions of each site, the services offered, the prices, etc. Make sure you are well informed before you make any decision.

Be Prepared for New Things

The virtual world is full of new things that we usually wouldn’t do with someone physically.  You need to be prepared that there will be some phone sex, video sex, mutual self-pleasure and sexting. Virtual reality sex allows us to be curious, creative.  So as adults, we often forget how to be playful and teasing.

And the sex drive and libido decreases over time. To have a good intimate connection, you’ll need to put in the extra effort and help keep the emotional and sexual connection going on. 

While it may feel intimidating to bring that up to the partner you’ll potentially meet on the site and have an honest conversation about your expectations and contributions to the virtual relationship. You can even recommend using sex toys and meet some of your longing desires.

Make Sure The Partner Gives Consent

This goes both ways. You always need to make sure that your virtual partner feels heard and you have their consent at all times, for different activities.

It’s necessary to give and have consent for every step, and sometimes even ask for it twice. You can also create a list of desires and kinky stuff you’d like to do, consult with your partner about what can be done and what can’t, and go together in this new adventure of pleasure. 

Consent and Boundaries need to be put to have the best virtual sex experience, and even if this was your first time trying it, consider it as a way to spice things up. And the most important thing is to have fun and don’t take the partner or yourself too seriously.

Because at the end, we are all here to enjoy and spend our lives the best we can, so do not overcomplicate things and embrace the connection and pleasure this virtual meeting has to offer to you.

What Does Virtually Safe Mean?

Safe sex doesn’t have to mean that you always wear a condom, or that you are on birth control. Safe sex means being extra careful and aware of the cyber security and online risks that may pose a threat to your privacy. It’s impossible to get 100% security on the Internet, however, you can have few steps in mind to secure your connection and virtual meeting.

Check them out.

• Encrypted Messaging

Using encrypted messaging will help you tos tay protected and secure while browsing on the Internet. And keps the content between your partner and yourself. Your messages will not be stored on their server and no one will be able to see the content.  It may expose your phone number, so if you are sharing it with a partner your trust, it shouldn’t be an issue.  Use a Google Voice number and boost extra security.

• Edit Image Data

If you want to edit your image data, you’ll need to consider few things. Speaking of nudes, if you take a nude pic and want to send it to the virtual partner, there is an information layer that contains data about location, time and copyright information.

To edit the images you’ll need to clear the data in the Exif file with an app of a trusted source.  Even add a note on the copyright information to ensure the ownership.

• Keep Your Face Private

In case things get hasty, always make sure your face is covered. Also, avoid sharing any identifying markers like birthmarks or tattoos.

Phthalate Free Sex Toys!

Today I am reviewing Phthalates. Since starting to work here at Adultsmart I am constantly reading on the specifications of the sex toy that it is phthalate free. Until now I didn’t know what it was and why it made a difference to the toy and what made it a selling point.

So here we go for anyone else that is in my situation.

What are Phthalates?

Phthalates, pronounced thal-ates, is a group of chemicals that are in plastics to increase their flexibility, transparency, durability, longevity and make them harder to break.  They are derived from phthalic acid andare often referred to as plasticizes for its plastic-softening properties.

You will probably be extremely surprised to know that Phthalates are used in so many things and a lot of these are everyday items, vinyl flooring, adhesives and lubricating oils.  Detergents, plastic automotive parts, solvents, rain coats, personal hygiene products like shampoo’s, soaps, hair sprays and nail polishes just to name a few.

People are Exposed to Phthalates in Many Ways

Another surprising fact is that people are exposed to phthalates in many different ways.  Aside from the few ways mentioned above exposure can come from some containers that food and drinks are is kept in.

Exposure can come from swallowing, touching or even breathing if there are phthalate vapors in the air and also in some dust particles. Duration of exposure may be immediate, short term within about 14 days or long term, around a year.

Once phthalates enter the body, however the exposure has occurred, they generally breakdown fairly quickly into metabolites that pass out pretty quickly through urine.

Are Phthalates Sex Toys Safe to Use?

There is simply not enough scientific evidence to directly answer that question as there have been very few studies conducted using sex toys.  A variety of research institutions have weighed in and expressed  concerns from mild to serious.

There is a growing body of research consensus that phthalates have a toxic effect on the male reproductive system.  Most research organizations, with the obvious exception of the chemical industry all agree that phthalates pose some risk to health and reproduction.

Studies have been performed on rodents

That revealed when exposed in large doses, phthlates can cause damage to the liver, lungs, kidneys, testies and caused hormonal disruption.

Preliminary studies on humans have suggested that phthalates can cause poor semen quality and also have an effect on genital development. In saying that though, these studies are still in the early stages.  Using vaginal douches can also increase phthalate levels.

There was a study done recently by the Danish Environmental Protection Agency that concluded using sex toys with phthalates for one hour a day posed no health risks at all.  Unless you were pregnant or breast feeding, and the risk was to the fetus or child not the adult.

Other Dangers

But other researchers have found that white cell and animal studies show phthalates lead to changes that could induce or promote breast cancer.

There have even been studies conducted to test the urinary concentration of phthalate metabolites in women with breast cancer.  Versus women without breast cancer and the levels proved to be much higher in the women that had been diagnosed with breast cancer.

There have been studies that show that phthalates can increase resistance to some Chemotherapy treatments.  But again this is still in the early stages. The types of phthalates were the type used in vinyl flooring, carpet backing, car trims, dash boards and artificial leather.

Research concerning phthalates have produced alarming results

But most of the studies have been conducted at relatively high doses to which humans would not normally be exposed to.

So there is still no solid evidence at this stage as to whether phthalates does cause certain types of cancer. But the more I read up on this the more I think is does have a contributing factor to some cancers, the effectiveness of some cancer treatments and both the male and female reproductive system and there is some overwhelming evidence that phthalates do effect the development of unborn and young children.

So although no concrete evidence I would put forward that sex toys should be phthalate free just to be on the safe side.

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