I am reviewing the Tantus Bend Over Kit as it also comes in beginners. The kit includes two intermediate sized dildos, a harness, an O ring and a small bullet vibe.
This kit is perfect for couples that have participated in a small amount anal play before or female couples looking for a smaller sized strap on set.
Product Description from the Manufacturer
“The Bend Over Intermediate Kit is the perfect way to continue exploring strap-on sex. This kit has two smooth 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone dildos, the Medium and Large Silk. A 1.45″ O-ring, and comes with a vibrating velvet harness that is comfortable, adjustable (fits up to 60” hips). Machine washable.
It also comes with a 1.62” O-ring to accommodate multiple sized toys. As well as a One Touch Vibe that fits snugly into a pocket on the front of the harness for stimulation to both the strap-on wearer and their partner.
- Vibrator. Single Speed Removable Waterproof Bullet Vibe, Uses 1 X 1.5 V N Type Battery
- Safe For Your Body. Made from Tantus’ own unique formula of 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone
- Easy To Clean. Eco-Friendly, Hypoallergenic, Hygienic, Boilable, Bleachable and Dishwasher Safe.
- Harness. Fits up to 60” hips
- Silk Medium. 1″ x 5.5″
- Silk Large. 1.5″ x 7″‘
Tantus Bend Over Kit is a great strap-on for pegging.
It is comfortable with a velvet harness and adjustable nylon straps (152cm/60 inches waist). Comes with the Silk Small an Medium dildos which are the most popular ones of Tantus.
It’s harness is quite a simple design but it still allows for maximum comfort. Harness is of the jock strap style types with adjustable waist and thigh straps.
The thigh straps make the genitals easily accessible. As the restraints sit like crotch-less undies so the wearer can also receive stimulation!
Features and Materials
A front panel features a deep pocket to place the supplied single speed bullet vibe. This will also accommodate my ever favourite We-Vibe tango if you need more power. Or would like it to travel down the dongs to the receiver.
The bullet included is operated with 3 button batteries yet powerful enough to stimulate both wearer and their partner.
Harness comes with 2 sizes of a ring which allows you to use it with other sizes of dildos.
It is machine washable so really easy to keep it clean.
Another great thing about the harness is that it is not exclusive to the supplied dildos. The easy press studs can be opened to change the O ring so you can upgrade or downgrade in size!
This harness is amazing and can be a pegging gateway for more realistic or larger dildos.
Tantus Bend Over Kit
Dongs in this kit are made of Tantus’ hand poured premium silicone which is body safe, odourless, non-porous, phthalates free.
Firm yet flexible enough to fit men’s body.
Each of them has a flared base which makes them suitable for strap on use.
The smaller one is just 4.5 inches long and 2.5 inches in girth which is favourable for new starters to anal penetration. This is a marketing strategy, to be honest. I found this smaller one too small, like a finger.
Silk Medium is 5.5 inches long and 3.5 inches in girth which is perfect for having fun.
Both are curve shaped without texture. There are two colour options as black and purple.
Only drawback of these dildos is being a real dust-magnet. So please make sure that you clean the dildos properly before and after each use with toy cleaner, warm water and soap. They can be also washed in the dishwasher or can be boiled in water.
An exclusive squish with the optimal firmness so that they don’t sag or droop in the harness. But aren’t too rigid to cause discomfort to the receiver.
Dongs are named silk (medium and large are included in this kit) for their extremely smooth glossy finish can also be purchased separately.
Just like the packaging suggests
This kit is for people who have participated in a small amount of penetrative play may it be anally or vaginally. Its good to start with the medium sized silk as it makes for a great warm-up.
And its glossy finish teamed up with the right amount of lubricant is sure to please any receiving partner.
Silk medium has a slight up curve for G-Spot and P-Spot stimulation tapering in towards the base for maximum comfort. Large has a slightly different shape as it has a larger head for greater stimulation of the P and G spots.
Tantus has kept the tapered base
Only difference you will find between these to products is the length and increased girth. Other users have suggested that there is too big of a gap between sizes.
This is easily overcome with a good warm up and lubricant.
Tantus’ packaging its so colourful and fun!
Instead of the open panelled box, this kit comes in clamshell packaging with an inlay which has some really good information on each piece in the collection.
There is no storage bag for the silk dildos so I would recommend sandwich bags. Tantus’ silicone tends to pick up a lot of lint and dust but as a plus, they are easy to clean!
Cleaning
Methods you can use would be with warm water and soap, a toy cleaner, a bleach solution. Or you can also boil it so your products stay bacteria free! as before mentioned the harness is machine washable.
This kit is perfect for beginners and intermediates alike! Many users can get something out of this kit!
Its harness is basic and functional and the silks can later be used as perfect warm-up tools for anal players once they graduate from this kit.
Most of the couples find gender role reversal too intimidating for some reason.
If you and your partner are keen to have fun by swapping roles in bed you will explore a new way of making love with your lover. It may be one of the best experience in your relationship you have ever had.
This role reversal enables women to understand what it feels like to have a sex from men’s perspective.
And why they love it so much.
On the other hand, men experience how prostate stimulation blows their minds.
And finally both of them see and establish rapport with each other’s roles in the bed which means more fun undoubtedly.
All in all, the Bend Over Beginner Kit will be the third one in your relationship if you are really into pegging and obviously you will love it!
Although I talked about it as if the Kit is only for straight couples, please don’t hesitate to use it as a same sex couple. Everyone can enjoy it and it’s worth every penny.
Ignite The Erotic Flame – Tantus Harness Kit
I have been married for almost two years now and the fact is that I love her even more today than when we first got together which is amazing.
This is the motivation that gets me through most of the things in my life.
I feel like she deserves to be treated right and I want to make sure that she has a lot of fun in the bedroom.
To be totally honest with you, I tend to cum pretty quickly.
It has always been a problem. When I cum too quickly, I explain to her that she turns me on so much because I find her so beautiful. But sometimes, I feel inadequate when she has to finish herself off with a vibrator.
I have already blown my load and there is nothing left in me to keep on going.
My wife is the kind of person that loves experimenting.
She wants to keep our sex life alive and so do I.
Sex is one of the most important aspects of our relationship. I had always been sceptical about introducing sex toys to my marriage. But my wife had always been the one to spice things up in that department.
I had never had any past experiences with purchasing adult sex toys as that was her department. But my friend recommended that I should take the initiative to look for something to spice things up in the bedroom.
So I went to Adultsmart in Kogarah.
I explained my problem to the sales consultant who professionally and politely guided me through the selection that they had in the store.
What’s included in the Tantus Harness Flame Kit
This is when I saw the Tantus Harness Flame Kit.
Tantus Harness Flame Kit is a sex toy collection which includes a dildo, harness and a removable bullet vibrator. The dildo is purple and textured with a beautiful flame pattern.
This dildo is also a different size to me, so she can feel what it is like to have a different size inside of her. Its harness is made with straps which are worn comfortably around the waist.
The harness has an O-ring at the front and the dildo can be inserted through the O-ring and it will sit firmly in place.
Harness also has a pocket where you can place the bullet vibrator.
This bullet vibrator is used to send pleasurable waves of vibrations through the dildo for added pleasure. I can also remove the bullet vibrator and use it directly on her clitoris during the foreplay.
Or when I am thrusting into her.
I bought this baby on the spot for a very reasonable price and I am telling you that my sex life has never been the same since I purchased it.
Why we love the Tantus Harness Flame Kit
I knew that this is was the kind of thing that I wanted in our bedroom as it would satisfy her. It was because I could use the Tantus Harness Flame Kit as if it were an extension of my own body.
I would be in complete control of the experience and watch her enjoy the pleasure that she would experience from every individual thrust.
To top that off, the vibrations would send waves of pleasure through her.
Her orgasmic build-up for her would feel out of this world. The thing is fantastic. Using it just makes the whole sexual experience even more satisfying for us both.
The fact that it comes in purple was an added advantage as that is her favorite colour.
You can just imagine the smile that was on her face when she saw that I had remembered what her favourite colour was. And that I took the initiative to get something that she would love.
We just wanted to get to the bedroom and try it out
Boy let me tell you it was amazing. Shaft was gently curved for pinpoint stimulation of the G-spot is amazing. We both love that the dildo is also soft to the touch. It makes for an easy ride as it has no problems at all.
This is even better as I see in her eyes the pleasure the dildo is delivering to her each and every time it enters her.
When it is in her she moans in delight and will often ask for more.
This also helps in making sure that the positioning is accurate. So that you never have to worry about hitting the right places. It is even designed so that it can actually remain in place during the whole sexual experience.
This is why we love it more than any other sex toy. Just makes the whole thing easy.
I think I hit the jackpot the moment that I purchased this
It has just the right kind of fun that any relationship needs and has given me so much more confidence in the bedroom department. Just keeps getting better and better. This baby just gives us the pleasure of getting to try out unconventional sex positions each day.
We look forward to using it when we both get home from work at the end of the day and are ready to have some fun. I no longer have to worry about her not being satisfied…
And when she is spent I enter her like the conqueror I now am. I also happily spurt without holding back when I know she has already been satisfied.
She joked about pegging me with it.
To be quite honest, the seed has now been planted by my wife and I am now interested in pegging. I have been reading up on it on the internet and am just trying to work up the courage to actually try it.
Perhaps I should read up on it some more and may let you know.
My sex life really needed the Tantus Harness Flame Kit.
It offered the right kind of fun I needed. This is an amazing sex toy collection and I just love the fact that I too now am an adventurous person sexually.
I would recommend it to anyone with a similar problem as mine.
If you would like to try out a harness kit with different sized dildos you can buy the Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit which has two untextured dildos.
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