My husband now spanks me when I’m bad and I love it. But that was not always the case. It took some time for me to trust him enough to tell him that I had sexual fantasies in that I had the fetish to be a submissive during intimacy with him. People assume that marriage is the death of fun but this is one of those true submissive stories. So, that may be true if you have to hide a sexual fetish. But my love life hasn’t been the same since.
I Revealed My Sexual Fantasies To My Spouse
Being a petite woman, I’ve always desired to have the arms of a strong man hold me. My husband and I had a long courtship before we married. But I fell in love with him quickly.
He is a US Marine, muscular and tall. And his hands always make me think of how they’d feel touching me. Cupping my breast from behind, or slipping between my legs as he drives me in his car.
He has the skill of a dominant man, to guide me both physically and emotionally. In the beginning of our marriage, sex was wonderful. It had all the excitement a shiny new relationship. But it quickly dulled however, after our escapades became routine.
True Submissive Stories
I always had bondage and fetish fantasies, but never the guts to share them. Often would fantasize during sex about him touching my butt.
Asking him to spank me seemed silly. I didn’t realize it was a legitimate sexual fetish. It was weird actually, when I thought about it during sex but it helped me orgasm. If I thought about it when I was not aroused, I felt stupid.
When he picked our sexual positions, he usually chose doggy style. Sometimes he would spread my cheeks apart unexpectedly, touching my anus. I would feel such excitement and desire for him to keep going a little further.
But I felt embarrassed as my butt would pucker from the sudden cold air. I was sure he was looking, but I loved it.
First time I told him about my sexual fetish, I was in the bath.
We had a habit of playing chess in the evening. On this occasion I wanted to play while I lay in the tub. He lit candles for me and brought me my favorite fluffy towel. Soon the deep red wine had me light headed.
I would lay back, waiting for him to make his move. My body was keenly aware of the cool air in the bathroom and my breasts were perky. I stood up and stepped out of the tub and I gently kissed him and slowly bent over his lap.
Think he was stunned for a moment, but he quickly came around when I quietly asked him to spank me. Water was cooling on my skin. And when he smacked me, it stung.
Ended Up Being the Best Sex Ever
That night, we ended up having the best sexual encounter I have ever experienced. Upon bringing me to orgasm, I spilled more words of my desire.
He encouraged my sexual fetish by making me call him “Sir” when I addressed him. Fulfilled my lust several times, and I happily reciprocated. It was opening a whole new area of our love making my being a submissive. Soon, I realized that I was a (lucky) fool to have admitted so much to this man.
He quickly grasped my desire for submission
And took full advantage of his new power. Every night he would demand me to present myself to him for an inspection. If I was a good girl that day, he would spend time endlessly kissing my body until I would succumb to the pleasure. But if I was a bad girl, he would stimulate my body in a more aggressive way.
This exchange of power has helped our relationship in so many ways. I feel so feminine giving in to his requests. Allowing my body to be used by him gives me the freedom to relinquish power. I love putting aside our daily roles to fulfill my husband’s needs.
He loves the porno style sex.
We purchased fetish sex toys on the internet together. He makes a few choices and I have to decide from them what he’ll use on me. No matter what he does, he is always sure to make me happy.
Switching pleasure with pain, he keeps me enticed. I always wonder what he will want from me next.
We both love having our dirty secrets, like our common sexual fetish.
He’ll text me while I’m at work and tell me to take a naughty picture in the bathroom. I send it to him. He quickly tells me that I’ll be punished when I get home. I am so excited by the time I’m home, my panties are usually soaked.
He looks at me between my legs and I know I’m busted. So he spanks me, and stimulates my anus until he can roughly take it. He ignores my pleading, but will kindly rub me as he has his way. It makes me cry with pleasure and it never takes long for me to finish.
My begging only makes him bigger and he takes his time to drag it out. He can make me say or do anything at this point and he knows it.
In our endeavors, we have discovered another sexual fetish.
We love bondage roleplaying when he ties me up, spreads my legs far apart and explores my most sensitive areas.
I try not to show I enjoy it so much. Or else he stops and leaves me to suffer naked and exposed. He never leaves me long. But is sure to punish me upon his return. He enjoys embarrassing me by making me masturbate in front of him. And he records me touching myself and watches it later while I’m pleasuring him. I get red with humiliation, and crave his attention between my legs. But I know if I’m good he will give it to me.
I’m so happy I shared my sexual submissive masochist fetish with my husband.
We have connected in ways I never thought possible. I feel like he is in my mind sometimes. He grabs at my deepest thoughts and desires and turns them into a reality. We continue to nurture our sex life every day. And when he has control of my butt, I am more than willing to do what he want.
I Hogtied My Lover Into Ultimate Submission
I would love to thank leather manufacturer Kailash G. Exports for providing the Wrist & Ankle Cuffs, Leather 4 Point Hogtie, Leather Blindfold and Soft Leather Posture Collar for review.
Moment I saw this sexy leather fur trimmed restraint set I was extremely excited to go home and test it out. Luckily, I arrived home before my partner so I had time to quickly change the sheets. Light the room with some of her favourite soy candles and run the bath.
As she bathed, I finished cooking our dinner and she joined me at the table. She cast me a suspicious look as she wondered why she was being spoiled.
I revealed I had one more surprise planned for her after dinner.
“What’s my surprise?” she asked eagerly as I carried the plates back into the kitchen.
“Go upstairs, take your clothes off, lie face down on the bed and you’ll find out in a few minutes” I replied. As she raced upstairs I dumped the plates in the sink and followed, I couldn’t wait any longer. I climbed the stairs and breathed in the beautiful fruity aroma wafting from the bedroom.
“Do you trust me?” I asked as I slipped the blindfold over her hair and tightened the strap.
As I began to pull the restraints from the bag the metal clunked together and goosebumps spread across her naked body.
“Of course I do” she replied.
As I climbed over her and pressed her head down into the pillows. Having immense trust in your partner is essential in the BDSM world as submission is neither safe nor enjoyable without it.
Tie me Up, Tie me Down
I kissed the back of her neck and I took her hand in mine and moved it behind her back. Quickly I fastened the cuff around her wrist and brought her other hand down to join it.
I clipped both her wrists to the hogtie so they’re both restrained behind her back. Watched her squirm for a moment before I made my way down to her ankles. I fastened the cuffs to her ankles and I guided one foot at a time up towards the hogtie and attached them.
She was completely helpless and she whipped her head around and listened for some clue as to what would happen next.
I whispered “Do you still trust me?”
For those with little knowledge of BDSM and submissive play, you may at this point be wondering how this is a reward. But as I ruffled through our collection of sex toys I could feel her heart rate increase as a look of anxious excitement filled her face.
She was totally vulnerable, immobile and blind. I was free to tease and torment her as I pleased. It seemed to please her too.
Wrist & Ankle Cuffs
With a chic and sophisticated appearance, they are quite suitable for beginners who would like to test the waters and roleplay a BDSM scene. Their appearance distracts from any fears some people may have when they look at the more medieval types of BDSM devices.
You can smell the high quality leather through the box. These cuffs are extremely soft, light and breathable.
For the leather enthusiasts out there you’ll love the look of your partner bound by the beautiful fabric. With 6 notches on the ankle cuffs and 5 notches on the wrist cuffs they are sure to comfortably fit XS wrist/ankles all the way to plus a size.
Leather 4 Point Hogtie
This hogtie will leave your partner somewhat immobile as the flexibility of the device allows for some movement.
With a flick of the wrist, your restrained lover would be able to unclip the hogtie. So whilst my partner and I had a lot of fun with this device, It may not be suitable for those who really want to subject their partner to inescapable conditions. Being able to release yourself from a restraint to some extent ruins the illusion and defeats the point of being tied up.
My partner however who is somewhat new to the BDSM scene liked that the restraint still had a bit of movement as it allowed her to readjust herself to get more comfortable.
Leather Blindfold
With super soft black fur the blindfold is definitely one of the comfiest I have found. An elastic adjustable strap will fit snugly on all sized faces so it can be worn by both partners without losing its elasticity.
This blindfold is shaped with a groove above the nose. But it is not quite deep enough and gave my partner a little discomfort as it dug into the ridge of her nose. This blindfold completely blocks out light, it is relatively comfortable and completes this cute demeaning set.
Soft Leather Posture Collar
Theis collar is made with a beautiful leather which has a nice firm look with a lockable strap to keep your partner restrained for as long as you please.
Seeing my partner on her knees with this on was beautiful.
With sizes range from 14.25” to 18”. This posture collar is an awesome feature to help immobilise your partner. It has a perfect solid metal D-ring to attach a leash and walk your partner around wherever you wish.
Use it alongside the hogtie and cuffs so that your partner will have less movement. Your partner definitely won’t be able to see what you are about to do next….
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