Jaeleen Bennis is the creator of Bondassage which is an extraordinary professional service that involves the use of BDSM practices to provide a sensual massage. Jaeleen perfectly combined her skill sets of being a trained Dominatrix and a body worker into creating an unforgettable experience which allows couples or individuals to explore their desires and their sexuality in a safe environment.
Participating in a Bondassage session allows you to take your time to explore new methods, techniques, different types of sensory play and erogenous zones. Each experience can be tailored to your personal needs so that you are able to build your sexual confidence which you can then use to enhance your sexual lifestyle with new levels of intimacy and passion. Bondassage has become so popular and asked for is in demand all around the world. She has created two different trainings: one-to-one trainings that can teach you the required skill set needed to become a certified practitioner, or two online courses designed for the curious beginner or non-pro.
Tell me about yourself
Jaeleen Bennis, creator and founder of Bondassage®
As the creator of Bondassage®, Elysium by Bondassage®, Bondassage For Couples, The Art of Bondassage Online Course and The Advanced Art of Bondassage Video Course, I have designed programs that instruct individuals/couples and licenses practitioners/trainers in my uniquely sensual and provocative methods of bondage massage ~ also known as The Art of Bondassage.
I have over 28 years of professional experience, and 2000+ hours of extensive training in several healing modalities ~ Amma, Swedish, Acupressure, Shiatsu, Deep Tissue, Sports Massage, Reiki, Rebirthing, Polarity, Trigger and Active Release, Thai,Tantra and Taoist Massage, Shamanic Journeying, Aromatherapy, and Esoteric Energy Healing. I am a graduate of Barbara Carrelles’ Urban Tantra for Professionals program, a Sensual Shaman, and a Third Degree Reiki Master. As a Certified Massage Therapist, I have had the privilege of working on over twenty thousand bodies~ from overworked desk-bound professionals to professional athletes.
As a Domina, I am an accomplished Erotic Sadist with decades of experience in the “darker arts” of BDSM. I specialize in Corporal Punishment, Bondage, Sensory Deprivation and a wide variety of Body Play. I believe that BDSM is a valid path to self discovery and healing, and that submission can be a path to the Divine.
Outside of this realm, I’m a classically trained singer, voracious bibliophile, passionate fiber artist, a Virgo with Taurus rising, and an INFJ. Humor, compassion, intuition, and integrity is integral to my work. I offer education, instruction, coaching, and professional training to individuals, groups, erotic bodyworkers, and sexuality professionals.
What inspires you?
Life in all its endless variety and glory. Nature. Teaching Bondassage to others (it’s a great way for me to learn new skills/approaches). I find inspiration for pervertible sensation play items at the drugstore, the hardware store, the cooking store, in my kitchen drawers, in my bathroom, in nature. Many times, less is more. How many different ways can I use this hairbrush?
What is Bondassage?
Bondassage is a combination of light bondage, sensory deprivation, full body sensual massage and sensation play. It begins with the receiver naked and kneeling, a leather collar around their neck and padded cuffs on their wrists and ankles. Their eyes are covered with a soft blindfold. Lightly secured to a comfortably padded massage table, they sink deeply into their body as a selection of sensually-stimulating sounds play through their headphones. As they surrender to the sensations and forget the outside world, they are taken to a place of exquisite enjoyment ~ a place where they can indulge their senses and embrace the pleasure. Bondage massage, tie & tease … these modalities have been around for centuries. Certified Bondassage Practitioners are trained in the copyrighted sequence, and professional sessions will vary subsequent sessions based on your likes/dislikes.
I’ve created the The Art of Bondassage Online Course and the The Advanced Art of Bondassage Video Course for non-professionals as a way to increase their knowledge, skills, and confidently offer Bondassage to their partners.
What BDSM gear is involved in a Bondassage session? How do you use the BDSM gear?
A comfortable blindfold (we use a Mindfold), leather cuffs, leather collar, ropes restrain the receiver and create a container of submission. A rabbit and leather floggers are used for both body percussion and sensation play. For body percussion, we use hands, paddles, canes and crops in a light sensual manner to heighten sensation. Some of the sensation play items include vibrating toys (electric toothbrushes are a favorite), prickly items (wartenberg wheels), scratchy (fingernails), cold (ball chain flogger, ice), soft/silky things (fur, satin, feathers). In the Art of Bondassage online course, I give dozens of suggestions for sensation play items that you can find around the house. In the Advanced Art of Bondassage video course, I demonstrate all the ways you might use these tools, toys, and techniques.
What are the therapeutic benefits of a Bondassage?
Deep relaxation, surrender, healing, catharsis, pleasure, transcendent states, connection, discovering new pleasure zones. Intense orgasms have been reported 🙂
Would you recommend Bondassage as an introduction into the world of BDSM?
Bondassage allows people a “soft” entry into the world of BDSM. Learning and/or experiencing Bondassage is a safe, playful, creative way to stretch your intimate boundaries and expand your erotic repertoire.
Bondassage gives you the confidence and freedom to explore new techniques, new erogenous zones, and delicious new areas of sensory pleasure. Bondassage takes the receiver on a journey of sensation surprises. You may be a seasoned traveler in the BDSM realm but want something different, or you may be brand new and want to be introduced gently to percussion play, sensation exploration, and bondage. Either way, we can create a Bondassage session that best suits your needs. We’ll take you toward your known (and sometimes unknown) desires in an environment that is kind, safe, and full of surprises.
As a couple exploring Bondassage, you’ll find that it’s a lovely way to rekindle the passion and desire in your relationship. You’ll become more sensitive and adventurous with each other as you reach new levels of intimacy and sensuality. Bondassage gives you the confidence and freedom to explore new techniques, new erogenous zones, and delicious new areas of sensory pleasure. Bondassage takes the receiver on a journey of sensation surprises. You may be a seasoned traveler in the BDSM realm but want something different, or you may be brand new and want to be introduced gently to percussion play, sensation exploration, and bondage. Either way, we can create a Bondassage session that best suits your needs. We’ll take you toward your known (and sometimes unknown) desires in an environment that is kind, safe, and full of surprises.
What types of people would you recommend a Bondassage to?
Everyone! Couples and adventurous singles find that Bondassage increases connection, desire, intimacy, and sexual satisfaction with your lover. Folks looking to dip their toes into the kinky waters, experienced BDSM players looking to incorporate more sensual & erotic aspects into their play. Professional looking to expand their repertoire and reach new clients. People who have a difficult time “getting out of their head”. Control freaks 🙂
Bondassage will help you explore techniques you’ve always wanted to try and introduce you to some you may have never even imagined. You’ll explore what kinds of experiences you and your partner might enjoy.
What would it feel like to receive a Bondassage?
Most people experience deep surrender, dropping deeply into their body. They have the ability to let go and give up control of the experience over to another. Here are a couple of testimonials:
When receiving (being the bottom for) a Bondassage session, your mindset must be one of submission. When you emerge from the shower, clean and dry, the practitioner immediately takes control. You kneel at the massage table and the practitioner begins the process of bondage. A collar is placed on your neck. This is the point at which you begin to understand that you will be under her control. Leather bindings on your wrists and ankles accentuate the feeling of submission. She might caress your bum and even maybe a fleeting touch to your naughty bits, signalling that there is pleasure in your immediate future.
Laying face down, with a blindfold in place, you think, “I better scratch my nose one last time as I will be unable to do so for a while.” When the headphones go on, the feeling of being immersed in an alternate space is enhanced. Is the space safe? Well of course, but maybe there is a doubt … which is thrilling.
Soon you begin to feel sensations from a variety of angles and with different textures. Soft, scratchy, vibrations, silky, warm, cold … Where will the next touch be? Your arm? shoulder? Feet? Bum? Fingers? Oh I hope it’s …
Suddenly, the sensations get a little rougher. Was that a smack on my ass or could a paddle be next? Just as suddenly, you are receiving the most pleasurable stroke ever and then even more. But the pleasure stops and again, there is intensity, but not severe, it feels good to be spanked and caned. Just as you are beginning to feel that the cane is starting to hurt, once again her hand is between your thighs stroking you. All the while the music is taking you on a journey through a very nice place, soft, and rhythmic.
Way before you want, the session is gently interrupted as you are ordered to turn over. What will it be like? You are tied down again, face up and blindfolded and you as exposed to whatever comes next. Helpless and eager for pleasure. More pleasure please ?
And pleasure there is and how long will you last? She is an expert at keeping you on the edge. So close and will I climax? Yes you will but not yet.
Finally the pleasure becomes the single focus of your existence. There is nothing but the stroke and another and another. Please, don’t come, don’t come, but you will and you did and it lasted forever.
After a while you notice that there is a warm cloth being wrapped around your genitals and it feels warm and safe. Wrapped in a soft blanket, you drift off into another world of altered consciousness and time stops.
“Ok, let’s do that again.” ~ Mike S
“If the best massage of your life, punctuated with delicious sensory play while blindfolded and strapped down to a cushy massage table sounds appealing, you must try Bondassage … It’s a feast of delicious sensations, from deep relaxation to highly skilled touch … the combination of virtuoso massage skills, body percussion, submission, sensation play, and sensory deprivation will take you to places you’ve never been before. It’s like nothing I’d ever experienced … Words simply cannot describe it. As powerful as any dream fantasy I’ve ever had.” ~ S
“Bondassage is a glorious combination of sensory manipulation, sensual massage and BDSM that is the most erotic single experience I’ve ever had. What I experienced was truly a transcendent experience for me, and my life has been profoundly changed.” ~ K
What is involved in becoming a Bondassage professional?
We offer one-to-one professional certification in Canada, the US, Australia, and the UK. Our two day Bondassage training is designed for sensually adventurous individuals and couples, bodyworkers who work with sex and sexuality, tantrikas, sexological bodyworkers, sensual massage artists, sexual healers, sacred intimates, Pro Dommes, sexuality educators and professionals of all kinds. You’ll gain the skills and the tools you need to create the outrageously unique Bondassage Experience for those you touch. We provide comprehensive training tailored to your unique skill sets and talents. You can find out more information here: Professional Bondassage Training And Certification.
Online professional certification is in the works and will be available globally in 2018: Online Bondassage Practitioner Certification.
Do you have to have a dominant personality to give a Bondassage?
Absolutely not. Someone with a submissive personality can give a Bondassage session to their Dominant as a way of service. As Mistress Jenna Rotten says:
“Learning the art of Bondassage has opened a whole new part of My sensual side, teaching Me the importance of the connections we can make without using words.”
Where can people go to find more information?
For more information, you can find more information about my Bondassage courses here:
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