Nearly every day I am asked by one or more customers “What is it like to work in an adult shop?” People seem to be curious by this profession. I cannot speak for every adult shop, but as far as working at Adult Lifestyle Centre goes – we absolutely love it!
I thought I’d give you all a small insight of my experience working at an Oh! Zone Adult Lifestyle Centre. I’ve only been working here for a few months so maybe sometime in the future I’ll give you an update. Keep in mind though that the experience is different for everyone and this is just one person’s perspective.
My First Sales Role In An Adult Store At Adult Lifestyle Centres
I’m going to go all the way back to the beginning. I’m 22 years old and had never worked in any industry that even came close to what it’s like to work in an Adult Sex Toy Shop. I previously worked with both animals and babies. These jobs are at the opposite end of the spectrum.
At first I must admit, when I stepped into a sex shop it was a little overwhelming. I had only ever tried two sex toys in my entire life. They were a straight vibrator and a double ended dong. I think I had been to an adult shop maybe once or twice before. I went to the Sexpo once when I was 18. I knew little to nothing about most of the products on the shelves. There were so many sex toys that I had no idea existed. There were BDSM products which I couldn’t figure out how they could possibly pleasure someone. or where they even went.
“4 cuffs and collar? What?? How does that work? Silicone lubricant and water based lubricant? Huh? What’s the difference? Glass dildos? OUCH! Wouldn’t that hurt?”
Now that I look back on it, I laugh at myself for being so naive and clueless. Four months later and I have three draws full of different sex products at home that I can’t get enough of. This is by far the most interesting job I’ve ever had and I absolutely love it!
From learning about different fetishes, seeing the newest advanced toys on the market, learning about how some toys actually help with common health issues, having people walk through the shop and open up to you about things they wouldn’t even talk to their closest friends or even their partner about. Just seeing the smile on their faces when they walk out the door.. I can’t even explain how great of a feeling that is.
When a customer walks into the store I can instantly tell if it’s their first time in an adult shop. They usually pull the same faces I did on my first day working here. Making customers feel as comfortable as possible is my aim, no one wants to watch a customer walk out of the store looking more uncomfortable than they did when they first walked in. What’s even more important is asking the right questions and having them walk out with the best possible product that will work for them and their personal preferences.
For example, if a woman was to walk in and tell me she’s never had an orgasm before. She also likes to have her g-spot and clitoris stimulated at the same time. I’d show her a few of the rabbit vibrators from my favourite brands including Lelo, Fun Factory and L’amourose.
The reason I will show her these 3 brands is because they are my personal favorites. I own sex toys from all three of these brands. They are the ones sitting at the front of my draw ready to go when I need. I would also show her the more affordable products we have on the wall. I’ll show her the difference between a battery operated and a rechargeable toy.
I’ve given you this as an example because this is actually my favourite sales experience since working here. I ended up selling the woman a Lelo Ina 2 with water based lubricant and toy cleaner. Two weeks later she came back in and thanked me for selling her a product that gave her, her first ever g-spot orgasm experience.
It’s an amazing feeling to have helped a customer. Having customers come back or even just call up to give us their feedback is great. They’ve gone to the effort to tell us how happy they are with their product, that we’ve suggested to them. How could that not put a huge smile on your face?
Working in an adult shop is an experience a lot of people probably wouldn’t ever consider but I promise you it’s an unforgettable one! There’s always cool new toys to check out and the different information that’s out there about our bodies, toys, lubricants and sprays. The product’s are endless! I hope you’ve all enjoyed this small read and have at least a tiny idea of how fun it is to work in an adult shop.
Top 10 Reasons Why We Love Working In An Adult Store
Working in an adult store can be an eye-opening and fulfilling experience. Those who choose this path often find themselves in a unique position to impact people’s lives positively, providing a comfortable space for exploration and self-discovery. Here are the top 10 reasons why individuals love working in adult stores.
1. Fostering Sexual Wellness and Positivity
Employees in adult stores play a crucial role in promoting sexual wellness and positivity. They provide valuable information and guidance to customers seeking to enhance their sexual experiences, ensuring a safe and positive exploration of sexuality. This aspect of the job allows workers to contribute to the overall well-being of their customers, making the role deeply fulfilling.
2. Embracing Diversity and Inclusivity
Adult stores are spaces that celebrate diversity and inclusivity. Employees have the opportunity to meet and assist a wide array of individuals from different backgrounds, orientations, and walks of life, fostering an environment of acceptance and understanding.
3. Educating and Empowering Customers
One of the most rewarding aspects of working in an adult store is the ability to educate and empower customers. Employees provide knowledge and insights about products and practices, empowering individuals to make informed decisions that can enhance their personal lives and relationships.
4. The Excitement of a Dynamic Environment
The adult retail industry is anything but dull. Employees encounter a variety of products, trends, and customer needs, ensuring that no two days are the same. This dynamic environment keeps the work exciting and engaging.
5. Personal and Professional Growth
Working in an adult store offers unique opportunities for personal and professional growth. Employees become knowledgeable about sexual health and wellness, communication, and customer service, skills that are valuable in many aspects of life.
6. Breaking Down Stigmas
Employees in adult stores play a significant role in breaking down stigmas surrounding sexuality and sexual health. By providing a judgment-free environment and promoting open communication, they contribute to a more open and accepting society.
7. Building Meaningful Relationships
The nature of an adult store allows for the building of meaningful relationships with customers. Employees can provide support and guidance during significant moments in customers’ lives, leading to lasting connections and a rewarding sense of community.
8. The Satisfaction of Helping Others
Helping customers find the right products to fulfil their needs or enhance their relationships can be incredibly satisfying. Employees often witness the positive impact of their advice and recommendations, adding a layer of personal satisfaction to the job.
9. Potential for Financial Rewards
Like many retail positions, working in an adult store can offer financial rewards through sales incentives, commissions, or bonuses. This performance-based aspect of the job can be highly motivating for those who are driven by results.
10. A Sense of Empowerment
Finally, working in an adult store can be empowering. Employees gain extensive knowledge about sexual health and wellness, becoming confident advocates for positive sexual experiences. This empowerment not only benefits the employees but also the customers they assist, creating a mutually beneficial environment that makes working in an adult store a truly unique and rewarding experience.
By Eliana a consultant at Oh Zone Adult Lifestyle Centres
Jennifer is a marketer at Adultsmart! Embracing a non-judgmental stance, she believes in pleasure without limits—if it feels good and right, why not?
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