Do you want 11 tips when choosing a vibrator? Masturbation used to be a taboo discussion among the community, especially when it comes to women. Due to sex technology development within the sex toy industry, people have opened up to the idea of masturbation with sex toys and now even introduce the use of vibrators into their sexual relationships with people.
Sex toys enhance the pleasurable sensations and often intensifies the orgasm. Vibrators nowadays come in various shapes and color. Most often, however, these sex toys are quite trendy in design and are quite affordable. Nevertheless, there are still a some women who need a vibrator guide and are shy to ask for fear of being made fun of. Some of these vibrators do not come with any manual by the way.
Choosing a Vibrator – 11 Tips To Get You Started
To guide all those women and even men, who wish to make full use of a vibrator, here are some tips to help you get started.
Tip 1
First of all, if you’re buying the vibrator from online market, you should inspect it upon receipt so that you can return it right away if you see any obvious defects to it.
Broken handles, exposed wiring or dents that should not be there should be closely inspected and reported to the seller. If the defect is something beyond remedy, you should send it back before the warranty period is over. If you can see some defects, you should return it since you’re the one paying for it.
Tip 2
Vibrators usually are battery operated, and it would be appropriate for you to test the product to ascertain if it operates smoothly whether the batteries be insertable or rechargeable.
Check for the appropriate batteries to use but ensure that you have turned off the vibrator before you insert the batteries. You don’t want to be caught red handed when the thing will automatically vibrate and surprise you with its humming and buzzing. If it is rechargeable charge it and then test to see that it operates correctly.
Tip 3
Now, run some tests and start with the lowest level of intensity to ascertain if it works, then scroll through to a higher intensity until you reach the maximum setting. Alternate switching the sex toy to high, then medium, low to high and vice versa to determine its capacity. If it has vibration modes run the same test with those.
You would be using it in the same way anyway, so it would be better to test its capabilities before you use it. You don’t want it suddenly stopping just when you’re in the throes of passion, do you? So, better check it out so that you will know its limit before use. Check for any grip, or dent or some indentations which might cause harm when using it.
Tip 4
Upon complete inspection for any physical defects of the unit and if you’re assured that everything is in order, it would be highly recommended to then wash and disinfect the vibrator and store it in a secure yet roomy drawer.
You would not want anyone to mistake it for a toy or worse; children might play with it while you have visitors and it would be an unwelcome source of embarrassment.
Tip 5
You should always remove the batteries when you’re not using the vibrator. Accidental switch on might cause you some alarm and embarrassment from other family members.
If you have not used it for quite some time there may be some battery leakage to making the toy unusable.
Tip 6
When using the vibrator, and there are some family members nearby, you can use a blanket to cover it and muffle the sound. You would not want to embarrass yourself with them trying to locate the source of that weird whirring sound from somewhere in the house.
Tip 7
Many vibrators are made for clitoral stimulation and there are some which you can insert into your vagina.
You must ensure however that there is no broken area, detachable part or pointed part of it which might bring you harm. It pays to be vigilant about these things and check every time before use.
Tip 8
When it comes to vibrators, the material can make all of the difference. It can be smooth or textured in the same way as a real penis.
There are also others that come with unique textures and grooves for her ultimate pleasure. These are supposed to hit the G-Spot in women, and though each woman is different, they can help in other ways. If you end up buying a vibrator, a little lube can help here as well.
Tip 9
Why not find a vibrator that’s waterproof and has a lot of speed settings. Waterproof comes in handy because it can be used in pools and bathtubs. And who wouldn’t like a little pick me up in the morning shower? Or for the ultimate private experience, use the (waterproof models only!) vibrator in the tub—it’s ultra quiet and discreet.
Speed settings help to control the pleasure of the experience, plus the vibrator can then be used on the clitoris as well. With a little lube and a good vibrator, the woman can feel waves of orgasms—repeated over and over. Yes, multiple orgasms are possible—, especially with a good vibrator.
And when the man has picked out a great vibrator for himself or his partner, they’re going to be thanked in a unique ways. So if it says it is waterproof – test it – that way if or when you decide to have some fun in the tub you can.
Tip 10
Looking for a present for someone else? One of the biggest complaints I hear from women is that their partner, boyfriend, husband, whatever bought them the biggest vibrator or dildo that they had ever seen. And while the prevailing thought is that bigger is better, but this isn’t always the case for every woman. Some women aren’t designed for that kind of capacity, so you’re going to need to think a little more compact, perhaps.
A lot of people believe size matters. Shoving something big into something that is small isn’t pleasurable in the least bit. And the sad part is that a lot of the women won’t even say anything because they don’t want to offend your choice. Why make these poor ladies suffer? Be sensible about size unless you know she can take it! For some us, bigger is indeed better… Look at yourself. Yes, unzip your pants and look at what your woman is already accustomed to feeling inside her.
Be honest, this isn’t the time to start bragging about the size, length, whatever, no one is looking but you. That’s the size that you want to choose for a vibrator for your woman. Slightly bigger is okay too, but don’t go for the foot in diameter version. He eyes may widen when she sees it, but that’s in fear, not anticipation.
Tip 11
You should always wash your vibrator after every use and keep it where it’s secure. As always, remove the batteries when not using the gadget. Ensure that it is clean so as not to run the risk of any infection upon using it. And do I need to emphasize that you should not lend your gadget to just anyone? It can unknowingly transmit diseases.
Meet Rick, Adultsmart’s owner with 35+ years in the adult industry. A sex blogger, advocate for gender and sexuality equality, offering a diverse product range.
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