Practice always makes perfect, when it comes to a difficult task like fellatio, especially hardcore foreplay like deep throating. Deep throating can make some people nervous and others rise to the challenge and reign victorious.
Deep Throating Tips and Tactics
Since the infamous film broke back in 1972, more and more people each year are warming their throats to the idea that they could do this themselves. Some even go as far as to research tactics to tackle the dreaded gag reflex.
For the lucky few who don’t have a gag reflex, gifted souls that you are, it makes this act very easy.
But for those of us that gag and are more sensitive. I have compiled some tactics, tips and products that can assist and make the experience fun and pleasurable.
What is the Gag Reflex in Deep Throating?
The pharyngeal reflex is a contraction of the throat. This usually happens when an object is pressed or touched against the roof at the back of the throat. Or near the end of the tongue near the tonsils.
This reflex is to prevent choking. I find that many people that have hyper-sensitive reflex generally due to a conditioned response. It can be brought on by a traumatic experience previous or acute anxiety.
For those on the other end of the spectrum, about 1 in 3 people are found to be lacking or not have the response reflex at all.
Deep Throat – The Film
Historically not much has been mentioned about deep fellatio until the 70s, Deep Throat the film broke in 1972. This was an American pornographic film dubbed the ‘forefront of the Golden Age of Porn’.
Starring Linda Lovelace and Harry Reems as the Doctor. The story line was based on a woman born with an unusual birth defect. It gave her the ability to perform remarkable fellatio which the Doctor solves with an unorthodox solution.
Deep Throat was released at a time where the war was being waged by counterculture. Sexual liberation was rising up against a belligerent establishment.
This film now considered a cult porn classic.
It sets the bar for other film production companies, directors, writers. And of course the actors to up their game. Since 1972, we have seen some big names break specialising in the art of deep throat.
New age actors like Ice La Fox, Lacey Duvalle, Sasha Grey, Belladonna, Sean Cody’s Curtis and the fiery Gianna Michaels (pictured in order below). They’ve gained notoriety and have even won awards for best oral scenes over the years.
I have seen some of these actors in all their glory and have found they all use similar techniques.
Most will force an object (fingers or sex toys) to trigger the gag or pharyngeal reflex/spasm to relax the throat. Therefore they make it easier before performing deep fellatio.
This is quite extreme and not advised. But I will say that watching these performers just makes me realise why they have won countless awards. Their sexual abilities are out of this world!
I remember watching Sasha Grey once in a gang bang with about ten men and she went deep one after the other. Gobsmacked!
Whether this scares you or slightly interests you, there is no denying those that achieve this and more have an outstanding ability.
Products to Help Deep Throating
There are products that we at AdultSmart do stock to assist those with difficulty in performing deep throat/ fellatio. But have that desire to go deep and explore.
We have discreet sprays and creams for those that want to venture deeper into extreme sexual activity and oral foreplay.
Sprays will generally have an anesthetic agent to numb the area topically to make it easier to go deep. Creams work as lubrication or a coating agent. There are delightful flavours to accommodate those who may have resistance or allergies to anesthetics or alcohol which are used in sprays.
GoodHead Deep Throating Spray by Doc Johnson
59ml/ 2 fl.oz spray bottle, containing anesthetic to ease the throat. This product is available in four flavours – Mystical Mint, Sexy Cinnamon, Sweet Strawberry and Wild Cherry.
SUCK IT Deep Throating Spray by Master Series
Suck It spray contains active ingredient Benzocaine anesthetic to ease the throat for deeper pleasure. Available in cooling mint flavour.
Instructions indicate to wait 5 minutes for this product to take full effect.
Sensuva Deeply Love You Throat Relaxer
A more natural alternative. This product doesn’t indicate any anesthetics however it does contain alcohol to assist in relaxing the throat. To make it easier to go that extra mile.
Available in Cinnamon Roll, Butter Rum, Chocolate Coconut, Chocolate Mint and Salted Caramel.
Sensuva Lic-olicious Throat Coating Oral Delight Cream
A lusciously thick oral cream containing natural oils and silicone to help it all go down. Creams don’t contain anesthetic however still very effective! This cream can be used all over the body, nipples, neck and genitals.
Not advised as a vaginal lubricant though but still worth every penny!
Available in delicious flavours – Cotton Candy, Watermelon, Cinnabun, Blueberry Muffin, Salted Caramel and Mocha Cappuccino.
Practice Makes Perfect when Deep Throating
As anyone would know practice always makes perfect when it comes to a difficult task like fellatio, especially hardcore foreplay like deep throating.
Remember to always take your time. Relax and enjoy.
Learn from the professionals and grab yourself a little something to help it go down!
Deep Throating Techniques – Watch Below
Cobra Manipulates Man Whilst Giving A Head-Job!
When I first saw the Fun Factory Cobra Libre 2 I thought it looked a bit like one of those science fiction racing cars like in the movie Tron. At any moment one of the buttons would turn it into a toy car.
Despite the fact that it looks like a toy car, it is a men’s sex toy made by the Fun Factory company.
Fun Factory sex toys are made and designed in Germany then imported over into Australia.
They provide some of the best high quality sex toys in the world.
Fun Factory Cobra Libre 2 is a powerful vibrator for men with two powerful vibrating motors. It is not a men’s masturbator. This is designed for a man to put the head of his penis into the almost oral looking orifice where it is massaged by the dual vibrators.
You can fit the majority of your penis in it. Don’t try to force your whole penis in there. It really is a unique male sex toy that gives a unique experience that I will attempt to describe.
How Do I Use the Cobra Libre?
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Put some lubricant on the end of your penis
It’s mouth is made of silicone. I tried it lying down however I think it would be equally good standing up as you can use it in the shower too.
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Turn it on
I then turned it on by pressing the + for a few seconds. Once it starts vibrating I slip my head into it. It’s shape allows you to easily hold onto it.
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Slip your penis head right up into it
It will produce a vacuum that will keep it in place. I never thought by looking at it, there would even be a vacuum feature but there is!
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Vibrations Start
They are rumbling, deep and very noisy so it is not a toy you can use discreetly. You then basically let it do its thing while adjusting the speed and modes to what best turns you on.
The Downsides
It is not like a masturbator that you stroke off with and slowly but surely builds you up. So, in some ways it is a bit disappointing.
Whilst your excitement is increasing you cannot thrust into it so it is very restrictive in what you can do.
BUT even though you can’t move it around, you can definitely move your shaft the way you want. It makes the masturbation experience that much better.
Whatever you do, just don’t move the Fun Factory Cobra Libre 2.
With Patience Cums Reward
However with patience comes reward and eventually I came. I must say it is one of the most intensive orgasms I ever had. But again I was frustrated as my basic instinct was to thrust but I had to let the sex toy do all the work for me.
This actually would be the perfect sex toy for someone that was mobility impaired.
I must say it is a little bit similar to the thought behind the Pulse. However with the Pulse Guybrator you can also stroke off with it.
All in all I would described the experience intensely satisfying yet at the same time frustrating if that makes sense.
It is not my favourite male sex toy to review with the Hot Octupuss Pulse and Fleshlights being my favourite.
But it is no way, shape or form something that I did not enjoy.
Facts about the Cobra Libre
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Cobra Libre is 18 cm long, 8cm wide and insertable length of just 7.5cm.
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Fully rechargeable sex toy
Using the patented Fun Factor Click N Charge system. This interchangeable with most Fun Factory toys and is powered by any PDA or USB charger.
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Well built
Exterior is made of a hard plastic whilst the ‘mouth’ is made of medical grade silicone.
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8 different pulses and patterns and intensities.
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Charging Time
It takes about 4 hours to fully charge and that gives you continuous use of 2 hours. Personally it took me 30 minutes to ejaculate so you get about 4 uses before you have to charge if my time is average.
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Charging Light
There is a charging light that pulses when taking a charge. It stays on when it is fully charged. This also lights up when you are using the sex device.
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Cleaning
Cleaning is simple but do not submerse it in water as it is not water proof so will probably fry the electrical components.
I Became An Alpha Masturbator!
In the world of personal masturbators, few products can compare to the Fleshlight.
With its streamlined design and functionality, it’s easy to understand how it’s the No. 1 male sex toy in the world.
But a toy that is putting an end to the monopoly is the Apollo Alpha Stroker 1 from leading adult merchandiser California Exotic Novelties
The following is a review based on by first impressions of this toy.
Both positive and negative aspects of what I consider to be a revolutionary toy in a market monopolised by big name brands.
What were my Initial Impressions?
Upon initial inspection, the box is an appealing combination of bright imaging and impressive detail.
From the bold silver font to the detailed breakdown of the toys impressive array of functions. Everything about the box drags you in.
Unlike most packaging for adult toys which are so convoluted and difficult to open. the Apollo is streamlined and easy to open. Also maintaining cleanliness and product integrity.
What I Liked about the Apollo
There’s a few things I was a fan of with regards to the Apollo.
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It’s rechargeable
This a huge plus, with most high quality toys forgoing the need for batteries.
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Whisper Quiet
Despite the power of the vibrations, which are impressive, the toy itself is whisper quiet. A testament to the quality.
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Entry point design
This is varied among the different models of the Apollo. Either a gender neutral design or a vulva based design that appeases men of all sexual proclivities.
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Pliable Sleeve
Very pliable and easy to remove which at first impression would mean an easier cleaning experience. But the design of the sleeve is to promote greater suction.
This means that unlike other masturbators that have a hole at the bottom of the sleeve, this sleeve does not. Which means a complicated inversion of the sleeve is required to clean it.
A major selling point of the Apollo is the customizable tightness.
This is achieved by two pressure pads situated on either side of the toy. They can be squeezed by the user to create the ideal pressure scenario.
With its streamlined design and ergonomic functionality the Apollo is easy to use. One push start is very simple and the functions button making it effortless to find your perfect orgasm.
One of the most impressive things about the Apollo is its affordability. While it still retails at over $150. When you look at what you’re getting for that price.
It’s definitely good bang for your buck!!!
Time to Acknowledge the Flipside
No toy is perfect and the Apollo is no different. Following are my own personal criticisms on an otherwise fantastic toy.
As previously mentioned, the sleeve design does not allow for easy cleaning like other designs. While this allows for greater suction, I’m sure I’m not the only one that would sacrifice a little suction for greater cleanliness. Especially given the nature of the toy!!!
The texture of the sleeve was a little softer than I was expecting from previous experiences touching ‘faux flesh.’ In my experience the “Fanta-Flesh” range is the most lifelike in terms of suppleness and firmness. Design of the Apollo sleeve is a little soft and squishy for my liking.
My final criticism is the 30 function feature. I’m not sure if I’m lacking the sensitivity to pick up on the minutiae. But I struggled to tell the difference with a lot of the vibrational patterns.
However the positives definitely outweigh the negatives in this situation.
I would definitely recommend the Apollo Alpha Stroker 1.
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Jennifer is a marketer at Adultsmart! Embracing a non-judgmental stance, she believes in pleasure without limits—if it feels good and right, why not?
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