Erectile dysfunction and prostate erection problems are some of the many problems that men are bound to face at a particular point in their life. It comes as a result of many things including stress, illness and other factors. Prostate cancer is one of those other factors.
Although it is a rare to have the gland removed, I decided to have mine cut out to prevent the spread of the cancer. My wife and I were thrilled when the doctor declared me cancer-free after the operation. Wasn’t I a happy person?
Little did I know that this excitement was not going to last long unfortunately. Soon after I had my prostate removed, that is when a host of erection problems paid me a visit all from that prostate gland.
Will I ever have natural erections again?
I think with the cancer leaving, I had to forget about having any natural erections again. My erections could not last any more than a couple of minutes. It was such a terrible time in my life. Although my wife understood my problem and stood by me.
She tried to cheer me up every now and then. She would tell me to forget about it. She got me some pills from some shop that I have never heard of. The pills did help somewhat with the prostate erection problems.
But there came other problems. After the operation it appeared to have affected making me have premature ejaculation/leakage. I had a really hard time holding it in. I was embarrassed about the erection problems. You can only begin to imagine how I felt with this new problem.
Two months without sex and I felt that I could not take it anymore.
Looking for Help for Prostate Erection Problems
That is when I went hunting for ways to handle prostate erection problems and premature ejaculation.
Honestly, I did not expect to find anything of substance on the internet. But I was to be shocked when I did a quick search on Google. There were so many methods of solving the erectile issues I was suffering from.
I started out with the pills.
They did help out with the prostate erection problems. But I hated the fact that I needed some medication to stimulate me. I wanted my erections to be natural. So I went back to the Google and that is when I came across the a Vacuum Pumping System that by the hype seemed to work.
So I ordered it online to try it out.
A Vacuum Pumping System
After trying it out I found that it worked and I would encourage any man who has erectile problems to look for a professional vacuum penis pumping System – not one of those cheap Chinese knock offs.
When you get this device you can always be sure that you will never go wrong. It is a really powerful tool that provides more than just solving erectile dysfunction.
After further researching it I now know that the vacuum pump method of solving erectile problems has become extremely popular for men with erectile dysfunction due to prostate removal. Many doctors recommend it – I just wish mine had earlier.
I was Nervous to Use a Penis Pump at First
At first I was hesitant to use this pump. It looked menacing and I feared using it on my penis. However, I considered the fact that my wife was almost giving up on our sex life and I had to make up my mind.
Remember I had tried out the pills?
So this was my only other option. It is a really great tool, easy to use and produces great results. Using together with a penis ring or any other band, you can maintain a healthy erection without having to alter the body’s blood composition with pills.
How Does a Penis Pump Work?
There are so many different types of penis pumps and each works a little differently. Basically, there is the cylinder that you will fit over the penis and then there is the pump that will create a suctioning vacuum force.
What happens is that the as you pump a partial vacuum will be created around the penis and thus blood will be drawn into the penis. This of course translates into an engorged penis.
As you increase the vacuum, there will be an increased different between your blood’s pressure and the pump pressure so you should use it moderately.
I had to learn to fight my greed to have a larger penis.
When too much pressure is applied instead of a harder penis, you can damage the blood vessels. To be on the safe side I therefore recommend that you use a really high quality Penis Pump. One that guarantees results.
A pump like that is perfect and great because not only well it be comfortable but it is also very safe for use. On top of that, these pumps can also be used to enlarge the breasts, nipples, clitoris and even testicles if you wish to incorporate it with other sexual play.
There are different cylinders that are used to achieve this.
One Drawback – It is a Not a Permanent Cure
It is not a permanent cure for erection problems because if you do not pump for a long time, the penis will simply revert to its normal size. This is why the penis/cock rings are used.
A penis ring will prevent the blood from flowing back into the body after pumping. You do not need to worry, it is not like the blood will flow back instantly. It will take several hours before the penis returns to its usual size. As you use it more frequently the results last longer sometimes up to days.
A bigger penis is always better when it comes to satisfying your partner.
Luckily the penis pump is a two in one tool. Not only did it give me that superb erection I was looking for, but I have noted a significant increase in the size of my penis.
I have been using the pump for about six months now and the increase in the size of my member is notable. I did some research and what I discovered is amazing. Honestly I had no idea that the penis is made up of muscles like any other muscles in the body.
What would happen if you started going to the gym to exercise your biceps? The same thing happens to the penis. When you pump, the muscles increase in size and volume and thus are able to accommodate a larger volume of blood.
My Preferred Way of Handling My Erection Problems
There are so many other ways of increasing the size of the penis and handling erection problems.
Personally prefer the penis pump as it is natural and surgery option I did not really care for and was very expensive. Together with the penis ring I have struck the metaphorical two birds with one stone.
- A pump gives me that erection I need.
The ring will prevent the penis from losing blood whilst controlling the semen. This allows me to last much longer without ejaculating and when it get to that, my orgasms can only be defined as body-shuddering. They are powerful and I love it.
- I am able to satisfy my wife and I also have my confidence back.
I do not use the pills anymore and I do not have to go for surgery to get my blood flowing. Penis pump in my opinion is the way to go.
Have a look at this penis pumps guide for more information.
Prostate Surgery Gave Me Everlaster Wishbone!
My name is Philip, I am 47 years old and I’ve had prostate surgery. Having prostate surgery isn’t nice, the pressure that it put on my family, my wife in particularly, was more devastating and embarrassing than actual cancer. I remember the fear that I felt, the uselessness of the entire situation.
My cancer wasn’t highly developed, I don’t know how, but a routine visit to the doctor and he insisted I have a check up caught it early. I had a prostatectomy, unfortunately despite it being fairly early, they were forced to cut some of the nerves affecting my penis.
I didn’t think much of it post surgery and neither did my wife.
But after recovering, going back to work, spending time with the family and not taking life so much for granted, a few cracks began to appear.
She Bought Me the Sportsheets Everlaster Wishbone
She ended up giving me a hollow strap on called the Sportsheets Everlaster-Wishbone. She told me about it, opened it up, showed it to me and I bought it. It’s a strap on that you wear kind of like a belt, and it puts a hollow dildo over your penis.
The aim is so that you can still have ‘sex’ even if you can’t get an erection whether that be from erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, prostate surgery or other reasons.
What Do I like About This Strap-On?
- Unlike the other ones, the strap seems soft and comfortable.
- It’s a polyester fabric, rather than a plastic, or a leather.
- Leather looked nice but I didn’t think it would feel so nice around my balls.
- Has a fully adjustable strap and will certainly fit bigger boys.
- Attachment itself seems a little bit like plastic but that’s just the nature of the products. All of the strap-ons I have felt a little like plastic but this one seemed a lot softer than the other ones.
Point is I couldn’t have Sex – I Couldn’t Get Hard
You might not think that’s a big deal, especially when I’d already had kids who’d reached their late teens. But what I’ve since learned what sex is, it’s not about having fun, or getting off – it’s about intimacy. Without the physicality of intimacy my relationship was affected.
I was used to sex providing that and didn’t quite know how to achieve it without sex. One of my work mates recommended a urologist down near Miranda, as I wasn’t happy with my current one, and off I went.
My urologist recommended some further surgical procedures including an internal pump, but I wasn’t so keen on more surgery. He then recommended I head down to Adultsmart at Kogarah and he gave me a short little list of things I could check out.
It’d had been over twelve months since the surgery
I was getting anxious, so I put my embarrassment aside and headed off. Unfortunately, there was a young girl behind the counter and I didn’t really want to talk about anything. So I just gave her the list and asked if she had any of those in stock.
Have you had prostate surgery recently she asked?
That simple question kind of took it all out of me, I nodded and she put the list down and off we went. She was incredibly helpful, and kind, and whilst I was still a bit uncomfortable it wasn’t something I couldn’t handle.
We went through about half a dozen strap-on dildos before I settled on one. They’ve got a large selection.
Sportsheets Everlaster Wishbone Helped with our Intimacy
The Sportsheets Everlaster Wishbone one is a 6.5inch strap on. So it’s also not overly big and it has a nice gentle curve for what I’ve been told is optimal g-spot stimulation.
When I took it home, my wife was a little uncomfortable by it, but I think she was intrigued, it took about a week before she said let’s try it. To be perfectly honest the first time was an unmitigated disaster. But it was about the closeness that we shared during that time and that was where it was beneficial to us as a couple.
We’ve since used it several times and had an absolute blast with it.
It’s not a replacement, but it allows us to channel our intimacy for each other in a physical manner. I thoroughly enjoy watching her be satisfied by it.
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