Female orgasms have been shrouded in mystery and debate for centuries. Male orgasms serve a clear purpose in the reproductive process, the function of female orgasms has remained more elusive. Female orgasms are anaspect of sexual health and pleasure. Let’s delve into the science, myths, and truths behind female orgasms, explore their evolutionary origins, and discuss potential health benefits and functions.
The Science of Female Orgasms
Female orgasms are a complex interplay of physical, emotional, and hormonal factors. Unlike male orgasms, which are necessary for reproduction, women’s orgasms are not essential for conception or egg release. They do play a role in sexual intimacy, pleasure, and well-being. Studies have shown that only 25% of women consistently experience orgasm during sexual intercourse.
The evolutionary purpose of female orgasms has long puzzled scientists. Some theories suggest that female orgasms may have once played a role in ovulation, their function in modern human reproduction remains unclear.
The Evolutionary Origins of Female Orgasms
A 2016 study by evolutionary biologists Mihaela Pavlicev and Gunter Wagner suggests that the female orgasm may have originated more than 150 million years ago in mammals as a way to release eggs for fertilization after sex. The hypothesis that female orgasms were necessary for ovulation, but evolved to have different functions in humans and other primates.
This theory suggests the hormonal surges associated with orgasms in humans, can be traced back to an ancient mechanism for egg release during sex. As women evolved to live in social groups with regular access to male partners, the female orgasm may have adapted to serve other purposes both physical and psychological.
The Anatomy of Female Orgasms
The clitoris, a highly sensitive part of the female genitalia, plays a crucial role in female orgasms. Containing approximately 8,000 nerve endings, the clitoris is twice as sensitive as the penis. During sexual arousal, blood flow to the clitoris and other genital areas increases, heightening sensitivity and pleasure.
Orgasms in women typically involve a series of muscle contractions, hormone releases, and intense sensations of pleasure. These responses can vary greatly between individuals and may be influenced by factors such as mood, level of arousal, and relationship dynamics.
What Are The Health Benefits of Female Orgasms?
Direct health benefits of female orgasms are not well-documented, evidence suggests that they offer a range of physical and emotional advantages. These include:
- Improved mood
- Stress relief
- Enhanced immunity
- Stronger relationships and emotional bonding with partners
What Are The Hormonal Effects of Female Orgasms?
During orgasm, women release a variety of hormones, including oxytocin and prolactin. Oxytocin, also known as the “love hormone,” is associated with feelings of trust, emotional bonding, and relaxation. Prolactin, on the other hand, is involved in milk production for breastfeeding mothers and can also have a calming effect.
How Do Female Orgasms Give Pain Relief?
Female orgasms can help alleviate pain, possibly due to the release of endorphins and other neurotransmitters that act as natural painkillers. They provide temporary relief from physical discomfort, orgasms and help distract women from pain, focusing their attention on pleasurable sensations.
What Is The Role of Female Orgasms in Fertility?
Although female orgasms are not necessary for conception, there is some evidence to suggest that they may play a role in fertility. A study found that women who experienced orgasms were more likely to retain sperm in their bodies, potentially increasing the odds of conception.
The link between female orgasms and fertility is not well-established.
What Are The Stages of Female Orgasms?
There are several theories about the stages of sexual arousal and orgasm in women, but most models include the following phases:
Excitement:
Arousal builds, often accompanied by increased blood flow to the genital area and heightened sensitivity.
Plateau:
Arousal levels continue to rise but eventually level off, with some women experiencing a “pre-orgasmic” state of intense pleasure.
Orgasm:
A series of muscle contractions, hormone releases, and intense sensations of pleasure occur, marking the climax of sexual arousal.
Resolution:
Arousal levels gradually decrease, often leaving women feeling relaxed and content.
It is important to note that not all women will experience these stages in the same way or in the same order, and individual experiences of orgasm can vary greatly.
The Truth About Female Orgasms
The truth and nothing but the truth about this complex and pleasurable phenomenon:
1. Female Orgasms Can Increase the Odds of Conception
Female orgasms help improve fertility by retaining sperm in the body and promoting hormonal balance.
2. Female Orgasms Involve a Variety of Hormonal Changes
Oxytocin, prolactin, and other hormones during orgasm can have a range of emotional and physical benefits like stress relief and relationship bonding.
3. Female Orgasms Can Help with Pain Relief
Endorphins and other natural painkillers, orgasms may provide temporary relief from physical discomfort. Helping refocus attention on pleasurable sensations.
4. Female Orgasms Can Improve with Age
As women age, they may become more comfortable with their bodies This gives confidence to be more open to experimentation, and communicate their sexual desires. This will contribute to more satisfying orgasms.
5. Female Orgasms Are Not the Sole Purpose of Sex
Many women enjoy various types of stimulation and emotional connection during sex, regardless of whether they reach orgasm.
What Are Some Common Misconceptions About Female Orgasms?
Some of the most common false beliefs about women’s orgasms include:
- Women who cannot orgasm have mental health issues
- Women should always be able to orgasm from penetrative sex
- Women cannot have vaginal orgasms
- Women must be in love to experience orgasms
- A partner can always tell if a woman has had an orgasm
What Are Some Strategies for Enhancing Female Orgasms?
There are several strategies that can help:
- Engage in regular exercise, which can boost libido and overall well-being
- Cultivate a positive body image and self-confidence
- Seek accurate and comprehensive sex education
- Communicate openly with your partner about your sexual desires and preferences
- Explore masturbation and self-pleasure techniques
3 Ways To An Ultimate Toe-Curling Blended Orgasm
Ok, so I admit, I’m a lazy and impatient masturbator. Which to the male half of the population probably doesn’t make much sense. We put such emphasis on making sure that men take their time with us ladies, making sure that we’re well looked after during foreplay and sex.
But the truth is that sometimes we don’t have the time or the energy to spend an hour just lying around playing with ourselves.
Up until a few months ago, when I joined the Adult Lifestyle Centre family, I had always just bought cheap battery operated toys. I was completely oblivious to the fact that there were different styles of vibrations. Different types of stimulation and to a certain extent, different areas to stimulate.
I learned how the shape and size of the adult toy affected it efficacy.
I have always been fascinated by the elusive G-spot and A-spot. Howeverthe effort it takes to achieve and orgasm through either has always been a turn-off. Like I said, I’m lazy… and sometimes time-poor. This is my lazy G-spot orgasm guide.
What the hell are the G-Spot and A-Spot I hear you ask?
Although there is much debate over whether either or both of these exist, I am by no means a health professional or sex expert. But I can say with some certainty, that there are some areas in the vagina that are more sensitive than others and produce. For me at least, longer and stronger orgasms. G-spot stimulation can cause female ejaculation.
The G-spot is located about 5cm inside the vaginal opening, on the front wall. It is a small spongy area that is slightly raised and rougher than the surrounding tissue. The A-spot or the anterior fornix is an area deep in the vagina, just above the cervix.
Fun Fact: Dr Chua Chee Ann’s study found that stimulating the A-spot for at least 10 minutes a day. This will help you achieve regular orgasms and vaginal lubrication, even without foreplay.
So, it was such a surprise to me that there were products out there that make achieving G-spot and A-spot orgasms less like work and more like fun! So here are my picks for the best ‘out of the ordinary’ toys that can make stimulating your A-spot and G-spot easier –
Satisfyer Pro G-Spot Rabbit And Vibration
What can I say?
This little beauty hits all of the right spots. To be honest, I was not a fan of the Satisfyer Pro 2. Personally, I thought it was a little boring. Not the G-Spot Rabbit! She is part of the Satisfyer Pro 2 range. Combining both a vibrating shaft with a flattened end for G-spot stimulation. The added air pulse technology for clitoral stimulation to provide you with toe-curling blended orgasms.
Controls are easy to use, with the outer rose gold ring used to control the vibration. The inner white panel is used to control the air pulse function. A quick 4 second hold on the bottom of the outer ring will turn your vibration on, same again, will turn it off. While you only need to hold in the bottom part of the inner button for 2 seconds to turn the air pulse on and off.
A little water based lube, like Intimate Earth’s Hydra Natural Glide, on the shaft and around the rim of the nozzle. This can make the feel of the silicone smoother, and heighten your overall experience.
Technical stuff
- 3 continuous vibration intensities and 7 pattern vibrations.
- 11 pulse intensities (In my opinion settings 5 and above should be classed as atomic).
- Vibration and pulse can be used together or on their own.
- Completely submersible, so feel free to supercharge the sensations in the bath. It also makes cleaning a breeze. Even inside the nozzle can be cleaned using a cotton bud.
- Magnetic USB rechargeable anywhere in the world. Although she takes around 3 hours to fully charge from flat, you get around 2 hours of use from that full charge!
We-Vibe Nova
Another goodie for producing mind-numbing blended orgasms. With Nova’s 8cm maximum insertable tapered shaft length and flexible clitoral arm. She sits comfortably either pressed against the G-spot or nestled further in against the A-spot. The wide flat side and gently rounded tip are perfect for either broad or pinpoint stimulation.
Once you master the controls, it’s as easy as ABC. A 5 second press in the middle if the control panel will get things started. You can then use the left/right buttons to change the vibration patterns and the plus/minus buttons to increase or decrease the intensity.
Use a little of Pjur’s Aqua Water Based Lubricant on the shaft and clitoral stimulator arm to maximise the glide of Nova’s body safe, phthalate free silicone cover.
Nerdy Info
- 2 powerful motors for dual stimulation.
- She is also waterproof, for a splashing great time in the bedroom and the bathroom!
- We-Connect app allows you or your partner in crime to control the vibration. This allows you to make your own pattern sequences!
- 90 minutes of charging via the magnetic USB cable will give you around 2 hours of play time.
Fun Factory Bi Stronic Fusion
This is the ultimate in lazy girl’s adult toy! Once it’s in and turned on. All you have to do is lay back and let the Bi Stronic’s magnetic motion and vibrating clitoral wing do all of the work for you. Her generous girth allows the shaft to stroke you in all the right spots all the way to your toe-curling, leg shaking orgasm.
Leave it to the Germans to design and make a no nonsense toy that does just what it’s supposed to do. Calling a spade a spade or, in this case a sex toy not a novelty toy.
Mastering the controls is easier than withdrawing cash from an ATM. Hit the red FUN button for a good time. Use the plus and minus buttons to cycle through the 64 different functions. This will allow you to enjoy the pulsation and vibration settings in combination or alone.
Don’t forget to ease the friction by lubricating the silicone parts with Fun Factory’s very own ToyFluid water based lube.
Fun Facts
- Has a travel lock, just in case you’re going away and can’t leave her behind, but you don’t want to explain what the thudding noise in your suitcase is.
- Completely waterproof and submersible for some bath time fun.
- Her 2 strong motors can be used together or separately.
- She also has a glaringly obvious low battery light that tells you when it’s time to click on the magnetic USB charger.
- So, I do hope that next time you’re shopping for a new toy, you consider a new style of stimulation. Happy shopping and playing everybody!
Author: Mia is a consultant from Adult Lifestyle Centres
Meet Rick, Adultsmart’s owner with 35+ years in the adult industry. A sex blogger, advocate for gender and sexuality equality, offering a diverse product range.
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