I love sex and I particularly like rough sex. Truth be told until recently, I had forgotten the sensual side of sex. I’d forgotten that gay sex and sensuality was about inner passion, about slowness, and about becoming entwined with each others bodies and minds. I was used to the hard and fast boys with rap sheets on par with the thickness of their slightly above average cocks. Though these boys displayed sensuality – they have nothing on my masseuse. My masseuse gives a happy ending like no other!
This might be simple to you. It might be common sense to you. But as a flirtatious and horny gay guy whose once been abandoned by his crush underneath a flagpole (Long story) I’d long forgotten the art of sensuality.
Disclaimer: I’ve Been Sleeping With my Masseuse
Its actually an event of the ages. I started seeing this guy because I had a really bad knee. One of my girlfriends had recommended him to me. He is smart, charming and had a delightful smile. Every single ache and pain dissolved with each sensual touch of his hands covered with coconut oil.
You have no idea how soft, yet firm those hands are which I know is a complete juxtaposition. But if you felt those hands wrapping around your thighs you’d instantly understand what i mean.
A Happy Ending – It All Started Innocently
I swear!!!!
Was I attracted to his smile? Or was I attracted to his delightfully wicked sense of humour? Yes, yes I was. But I swear that I didn’t start it.
The initial precursor started one afternoon, when my knee was particularly bad and he was caressing the knots out of the surrounding muscles. There was a moment where one of my nerves pinched and I winced with pain and jerked my arm.
Low and behold instead of touching air I touched something that was certainly a lot more hard than the knots in my leg.
Yes, I’m talking about his dick.
Because even though I’ve learnt how to be sensual, I am still a red blooded man. Now, I’m not going to go into details of my sexual encounters with my masseuse. Because I can sense a lot of jealousy coming up. Especially from my girlfriend who recommended me to him.
But I do want to discuss the art of sensuality, and the idea that sex can be in more forms than what we have considered. I’m not revealing what goes on in my bedroom.
Tips for Sensual and Enlightening Sex at Home
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Art of sensuality in the bedroom is about exploring each others bodies.
You might not have the most passionate hands, or the intuitive touch of a masseuse. But with a bit of oil or a feather tickler you can easily explore your partners body in more ways than one. Trick here is to take it slowly.
Don’t rush, cherish every touch and moment, every lingering caress. Blindfolds and cuffs work well here. Though if you really want to keep the atmosphere, make it soft silk/lace cuffs as opposed to the hard leather.
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It’s about you.
One of the brilliant things about sensual sex, is that your partner is focusing on you. When I say focusing on you, I don’t mean focusing on you rto the point which helps them get off, but focusing on you to the point where sexual satisfaction and completion revolves around you.
This might seem like a selfish concept to some, but sometimes there is nothing better than having the whole sexual world revolve around you and your needs – and don’t forget the fun that you can have in returning the favour.
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Many people consider bondage to be hard and rough
With the right atmosphere and intent, bondage sex is actually one of the key components of sensual sex. Art of taking control and fulfilling ones desires and fantasies. The art of surprise and the art of focusing all the positive energy on the task and person in front of you.
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Room Atmosphere
Sensual touching and sensual sex is also concerned with the atmosphere of the room as well. Remove digital distractions, screens and other things and focus on the development of the atmosphere.
Erotic scented candles, oils, flame lit rooms, and low key lighting are the key to creating a perfect mis-en-scene. The arrangement of the furniture as well as the textures, colours and tidiness of the room.
Masseuse boy has nailed this art, as he is very keenly aware due to the nature of his practice. That the paramount thing in regards to sensuality is the comfort level of both he and the individual as well as matching that with the décor of the room.
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Using different things and tools.
Don’t just rely on your hands. Use sex toys, use oils, use various things to amplify the sense of touch and make each sensual touch unique. Creativity is the key to this point.
Remember, if your partner is blindfolded, you can make use of ordinary tools such as rounded spoons to create unique touches.
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Explore.
It’s simple, you have to explore. Try new things and try these things with the mentality and mantra of exploring your sexual playmate.
Exclusive Coco De Mer Nell Vibrating Massager!
I am a 38 year old, divorced lady with a 9 year old daughter . So you can imagine the struggles that I have had to go through to make my life function properly. Having a very busy schedule with my daughter’s extra curricular activities and my long working hours.
I barely got time to do anything apart from taking my daughter to her classes and finishing my assignments from work.
My partner and I separated and we don’t really get much support from him. My daughter is my responsibility and I have to pull off long hours at work to be able to give her whatever she needs.
But at times I felt lonely and sad
About the the fact that I had to lay alone in bed at night with nobody to hold me or talk sweet nothing with me. Whenever I saw people around me who were dating and getting the love and attention that one desires of my jealousy kicked in.
I too want that sometime but due to my busy schedule I don’t have time to go out there and date a man who would make me feel the same way. Felt I was not yet ready to date and experience with what I had experienced with my ex.
Emotionally I was stable.
I had my friends at work. My daughter and my parents who have been there for me since the time me and my ex broke up. But I always felt that there was something that was missing. To be honest I used to miss the times we used to have sex, regardless of the way we felt about each other.
Till the time my husband and I were together we used to have frequent sex and I used to like it a lot. After the separation it had been a very long time since I had been touched sensually by another human or felt an organism through play.
Even after having everything that I needed a job that I love, my beautiful daughter, a house, a car.
It felt as if something was missing.
I missed the sexual experience that I used to have with my husband but I felt shy to speak to someone about it. Then one day, after I was done with my work I was searching the Internet and I ran across an article about sex toys.
It was about a luxury sex toy brand that all the stars in England used called Coco De Mer. Featured an article on the award winning Nell massager.
I visited their site and it looked promising.
Coco De Mer Sex Toys
Their products looked really nice. Among their wide range of sex toys, sexy lingerie and other sex products like dildos and vibrators they all looked very pleasing to the eye and sexy at the same. I obviously knew about these products, thanks to internet but had never owned one.
Only seeing their products one can make out that they are completely safe to use and I loved the Nell as it did not look phallic or the way I imagined a vibrator would look like.
I opened the link and read about the sex toys and their uses.
Some of these sex toys looked like a penis. They claimed to offer the same sexual experience that one gets to have with their partner. But I wasn’t into anything like that.
I don’t know why but I started to look more into it. Their website had really great customer reviews and people were praising their products on all the sites that sold their products. After reading about the company and its high end products and immense pleasure stories of the people, I visited the Adultsmart site and ordered it.
Good for Beginners
I didn’t know much about how I could use sex toys so for starters I ordered the Coco De Mer Nell vibrator. It looked really nice and sophisticated unlike other vibrators that I saw on the internet.
While reading about their site I got to know Coco de mer had a boutique in London selling sex toys and exotic lingerie. They claimed that their products are capable to bring out the pleasure in anyone. You can explore pleasures you have never experienced before.
I got the parcel through mail only a couple of days later. After opening the wrapping found the packaging was very nicely done.
I decided to try it out later that night
So, I used it the sex toy when I got home and I couldn’t believe what had happened to my body. Being married for so many years didn’t bring me such pleasures, which I had just experiences with the Coco De Mer Nell sex toy.
This product did everything that they said it would. So my first sex toy experience was so satisfying that it had left me wanting for more and more. I felt sexually satisfied. Whenever I felt the urge I took this baby out from my drawer and gave myself the opportunity to experience very erotic pleasures which I never had before.
It has been a few months now since I got my beloved Nell
I have successfully started dating. The man I am with is very loving and tender in bed and sometimes to spice up things we make use of the little dark drawer that I have chosen in my room for my new found love of sex toys.
After my first encounter with the Coco De Mer Nell it got rid of some of the emptiness that I felt in life after my separation.
Who would I Recommend Coco De Mer Nell to?
I would recommend this to all the people who are sexually active or who are dealing with sexual crisis in their life. It helped me at a point of time when I was alone it would surely help others as well.
My new partner and I have become regular sex toy customers.
It’s not a replacement to sex or a man. But it sure does give you the kind of alternate pleasure that you need in life. Nell is extravagant in looks as well as price. But it more than desirable and a sex aid that I was and am happy to have purchased.
Jennifer is a marketer at Adultsmart! Embracing a non-judgmental stance, she believes in pleasure without limits—if it feels good and right, why not?
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