What is swinging?
How to Host a Swingers Party.
Swinging is a form of open relationship where committed couples engage in non-monogamous sexual behaviour This isn’t just limited to couples but also to singles who enjoy engaging in open sex and orgy-like scenarios.
Swinging became more mainstream during the 60’s with the sexual revolution. As time goes on we see more and more people becoming involved in the swinging lifestyle.
What is the best time to host a Swingers Party?
You’ll want to pick a date in advance to give yourself enough time to plan the party and give people enough notice. Ideally, you want to pick a weekend, give yourself about 4-6 weeks to plan and prepare. Try to avoid long weekends or holidays as people may have other commitments and therefore fewer guests at your party!
Where should I host my swingers party?
You could hire an external space like a hotel room (or a few) or even a hall. However, these options can be costly to hire and food options will also be an added cost. If you’re comfortable to do so you could host the party from your own home. Make sure you remove any breakables or things that you don’t want body fluid on!
Once your date and venue are locked in, you can begin the festivities.
What the most common rules and how many people should I invite?
You should allocate a set number of guest, many swingers clubs limit the number of single men but often encourage single women to attend by offering free entry. You will want to keep a similar approach in your party planning as more often than not you’ll find women are more incline to swing with other couples or seek a woman to join them.
If you have a high number of straight men there is a decrease in swinging activities.
Snacks to spreads
No party is complete without food, and your swinger’s party should be no different. I am not suggesting that you need to serve a 7 course sit down meal. You could consider having a platter spread or bowls of snack food.
This is a good chance to make people comfortable as a guest if they are hungry. It is also an excellent ice-breaker for people to meet over the snacks or platters, an easy option for people to suss out their next potential playmate.
Comfort is key
You should have designated sex areas such as: couches, beds, bean bags and thing cosy and where people can get their swing on. Should you not want guest getting it on in your kitchen – assign no sex areas in the house. Be very clear if anyone breaks this rule they will no longer be welcome at your party.
Like I previously mentioned make sure you remove anything you don’t want damaged during a sex romp or stained with the body fluids that COME with sex parties.
(See what I did there?)
Plan your party with your style in mind
Make sure your guests have elected their playmate and that everyone is comfortable in their space before you all get busy. It’s easier to manage a party beforehand, otherwise you’ll be very upset if you don’t get an orgasm, before you’re interrupted with something party related.
If you’re like me, I find it easier to manage a party or event if I am not involved in the activities at all. There is nothing wrong with micromanaging. If it’s your style, there is also nothing wrong with completely winging it and going with the flow.
It’s your party, host it however you see fit.
Should I allow sleepovers at my Swingers Party?
You should decide before the party if you want guest to sleep over or not. Personally, as a party planner it is easier to manage if all your guests leave after the swinging is over. That way you don’t have to worry about guests needing to feed in the morning or having a guest potentially steal from you or other guests.
Having an estimated end time to the party should prompt guests to leave. As host you can do a once over of the house, before you go to bed, to ensure everyone has left the property.
The clean up
The worst part of hosting is the clean-up and I am sure you will have lots and lots to clean. You should try tackling a whole room of the house before you move on to the next room and having those sex free spaces will come in handy for the clean-up.
Remember to wash all bedding, sheets, pillowcases etc. you will need to vacuum and mop and clear the dishes and left over food. Once you’ve cleaned your house, light a candle, sit down and relax – you did it.
You threw a swingers party!
If you enjoyed it you can start planning your next swinger’s party. Maybe you could post an ad in your local Adult Lifestyle centre and invite other local swingers!
Sexual Health Tips for Adventurous Swingers
Swinging is becoming increasingly popular among adventurous Australians according to the Great Australian Sex Census. The days of struggling to find like-minded individuals to frolic with are long gone with swinger clubs popping up everywhere, including on social media an in the local newspaper.
As exhilarating as the lifestyle may be, it does require all participants to be extremely conscious of their sexual health.While your typical swinger community generally cannot reiterate the importance of safe sex enough, the possibility of contracting an STD always exists.
Always be careful and responsible when embarking on a sexual adventure of any kind.
No glove, no love
The last thing you want after a night of fun is to wake up with an itching or burning sensation near your genitals as this could indicate a possible herpes infection. One of the simplest ways to keep STDs such as genital herpes at bay is to make sure a condom is always used during intercourse.
Condoms are not only easy to use but very affordable as well leaving no valid excuse why they cannot be used every time you have sex. Apart from decreasing the risk of getting infected with all kinds of nasties, using a condom will also prevent any unwanted pregnancies.
Depending on your own personal kinks you can even invest in a range of ribbed, flavored, and glow-in-the-dark condoms that can take your sexual adventures to the next level.
Don’t rely on others to provide the condoms
Don’t ever assume that someone else will bring along all the condoms and lube that you may need (although they more than likely will. The swinger scene typically relies on a BYOC (bring your own condoms) policy where everyone always carries sufficient protection with them at all times.
While having condoms on standby is of great importance, it is as critical to ensure that they have not expired and that the packaging has not been compromised in any way.
Keep your fingers clean
Just like you wouldn’t eat with dirty hands, you shouldn’t have sex with them either. Hands and fingers are very often used during foreplay and therefore need to be as clean as possible before putting them to good use.
Short fingernails and frequently-washed hands are a good combination, especially if you are planning to insert your fingers into various orifices. Avoid cross-contamination at all costs so refrain from inserting your fingers into your partner’s mouth or vagina after anal sex. Unless they have been washed with an anti-bacterial soap or waterless cleanser.
Don’t forget about mouth and genital hygiene
Your hands are not the only part of your body that harbours germs. The genital area is known to be a breeding ground for bacteria which can course a range of infections that may be hard to get rid of. All swingers should make sure to wash their genitals properly before and after each sexual encounter. Keep a packet of antiseptic wipes on them for a swift clean-up.
Dental hygiene is equally important as mouth sores and bleeding gums can increase the risk of infections being spread during kissing and oral sex. Brushing your teeth three times a day and visiting a dentist on a regular basis will ensure that your mouth remains healthy and swinger-friendly at all times.
Don’t swing when you are sick
STDs aren’t the only conditions you can pick up from your sexual encounters. Many common illnesses such as colds, flu, strep throat, cold sores, and even hepatitis can spread through the saliva you are bound to exchange during your romps. When you are feeling under the weather it is best to indulge in some solo-satisfaction so to avoid making anyone else sick as well.
If you are sick, seek professional medical attention to help you recover as quickly as you possibly can. While you do not necessarily need to refrain from having sex with you partner. When you are sick you might want to avoid spreading your germs to an entire swinging community.
Get tested regularly
If you engage in a swinger lifestyle it is important to have yourself tested for STDs on a regular basis, regardless of the precautions you take. Even if you do not consider yourself at risk of contracting an STD it is unfortunately never possible to know anyone’s true sexual history.
If you are an active swinger you undoubtedly put yourself at a somewhat greater risk of contracting an STD as what you would if you were in a monogamous relationship.
Aim to have yourself tested at least twice a year and definitely much sooner should you suspect that you may have picked up something along the way.
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