Have you ever hit a stage in your sex life where you do the same thing over and over again? Have you ever asked yourself is there more to just missionary, doggy and cowgirl? Can I really last longer than 5 minutes? and actually be excited for sex instead of using the “I’m tired” line? Majority of people don’t like to acknowledge that they are in a sexual rut.
What is a Rut?
Defined in the dictionary as “a habit or pattern of behaviour that has become dull and unproductive but is hard to change”. A rut in your sex life can be very detrimental to your overall being, your relationship and your health.
Don’t worry, I’m going to give you a few strategies to break down your sexual rut. Get you back on track to being the sexual deviant that you and your partner deserve you to be.
30 Day Challenge to Get Out of the Sexual Rut
You’ll go from “Babe, not tonight I’m tired” to being able to execute a 4 minute quickie while you have the kids downstairs in front of the TV. Whilst the washing machine about to start beeping because your 30 min quick rinse is done. And the roast in the oven is 3 minutes away from belonging on Masterchef to being relocated to the bin.
Now, this isn’t a get rich quick scheme.
You have to use these strategies for a month before you quit on me and go back to your rut. If you don’t quit on me, then say thanks by just passing this article on in your email chain, whatsapp group or at the local bbq with your friends.
1. As Soon as You Wake Up
Kiss your partner and then do 20 to 50 push ups and 20 to 50 squats. Break them down to 4-5 sets. So your doing at least 6-10 per set.
Why the fuck am I doing push ups and squats? Giving you that burst of energy in the morning will set your tone for the day and give you more energy you need. It will also shock your body and get you in the habit of doing things straight away. Working your legs also boosts testosterone levels.
2. Stay Hydrated
DRINK 6 bottles of Water (be smart, buy a reusable bottle, use your savings for lingerie or sex toys) a day. Water is used to keep you hydrated which also keeps your energy levels higher and also helps boost your libido.
3. Talk to Your Partner
Sit them down and explain to them that you feel like you guys are in a bit of a sexual rut. And you want to actively (Key word thats why I made it bold) work on improving the pleasure for the both of you.
If you feel like she isn’t being an effective sexual tango partner, explain to her honestly and openly how you feel and work on ways that you both can improve.
4. Art of a Spontaneous Quickie
The art of the SPONTANEOUS QUICKIE is like jump starting cables to get your batteries charged. Want to charge the batteries? Have a quickie or a hot make out session with your partner. Make sure you do this at least once per week. Consistency is key so don’t think you can skip a week and be like no I will do 2 next week. NO. Every week, at least once.
5. Reaffirm
Let her know how sexy you find her. Tell her that she is what Cleopatra was to Mark Anthony. Even supermodels have insecurities. So build her up. Let her know that what she sees as an insecurity, is actually a turn on for you.
She doesn’t like her stretch marks? Well you tell her that tigers are one of the most exotic creatures in the jungle.
6. Self Talk is Powerful
Your thoughts become your actions. The more you tell yourself that you are a sexual deviant the more likely you will become one. You have George Cloony swarve with Hugh Hefner sex drive.
Repeat to yourself daily. I am full of energy and I love having an active and healthy sex life. Love making love to my partner. Say this 5 times per day and watch your world change in front of your eyes.
7. Introduce Sex Toys
Some people freak out and think that by introducing sex toys, you go out and by a 10inch dildo and scare the living day lights out of your partner. Go online and make sure you read the descriptions of the toys. It’s a marathon, not a sprint so make sure you start small.
Boys, don’t freak out either, she won’t replace you. Start off with a cock ring or a little cliteral vibe and some massage oil. Once you guys have had your fun and are more open to exploring and using sex toys. Build your collection with more premium toys such as Lelo, We-Vibe, The Rabbit Company, Womanizer and more!
Follow these 7 steps for the next 30 days
You will find a significant improvement to your sexual rut if you have one by the end of the month that is. Remember, the grass isn’t greener on the other side, it is greener where you water it so make the effort to improve your sex life daily.
Go get them Tiger.
1 Effortless Tip For Womanizing Oral That’s InsideOut
I have always wanted to try a Womanizer clit sucking sex toy!
With their recent launch of the #orgasmisahumanright hashtag campaign taking over Instagram, I was even more interested to try out their latest product the Womanizer InsideOut.
It is a combination of an oral stimulator and a G-spot vibrator.
When I received my Womanizer InsideOut
I saw the plain packaging which I noted was very discreet. Opened the package up to find the sleek Womanizer InsideOut box. It’s a really classy box so it would be perfect to store the InsideOut for some extra protection.
If you don’t want to use the box, it comes with a deluxe silky storage bag that is connected to a clip on black and gold tassel keychain.
I really love this, as I own a lot of sex toys. This keychain sets it apart from all of the other ones in my collection. Which is great because I don’t want to spend any time fumbling around looking for it.
I pulled out my Womanizer InsideOut
To find that there are two head pieces. After doing some research online, I found out that there are different head pieces for different body types. I thought this was genius.
Using a product especially an adult toy for the first time, you don’t want to order a complete product expecting it to work only to find out that you need to buy additional pieces. I placed my Womanizer InsideOut on recharge and went about my daily routine.
Charging took a standard 2 hours. Battery life lasts for 2 hours as well which I feel is a really good turn around in this day and age of modern technology.
After the 2 hour charge, my Womanizer InsideOut was ready to go.
I got out my favourite water-based lubricant and placed it on my side table just in case I needed it. First step in using the Womanizer InsideOut for me was placing the G-spot vibrator directly on my clitoris. It deeply rumbled the vibrations through my clit and I was very pleased.
Within 1 minute, I was ready for insertion. I got a really firm grip on the handle for some manual play which is just what I needed before it was fully inserted.
Used the handle to move it in a “come hither” action which felt too good to be true.
Its shaft has a gorgeous curve to it
So I placed it fully inside and it automatically found my G-spot.
This is a big YES for me.
Most sex toys I have previously used have a bulbous shaft which disturbs the gradual orgasmic build-up. Especially if you are just not ready for that type of stimulation. I was really happy to find that this shaft didn’t have that bulbous tip.
Finally, something that works with my body and doesn’t hinder the build up.
Thank you Womanizer!!!!
Plus, this is great especially when I want to change things up in the bedroom.Now, the clitoral stimulator was hovering above my clitoris. Suction power was overwhelming at first. My back arched and I could feel the pleasure and warmth run through every part of my body.
I had to remove it for a couple of seconds so I could get my head around the feeling. Was just using the Womanizer InsideOut on the lowest setting.
When I first thought of using an oral sex toy for clitoral stimulation alongside a G-spot vibrator, I was incredibly worried that I would feel overly stimulated. But I was completely wrong. There are different settings that you can use so it can work your body out as much as you choose to let it.
Feeling of the suction is AMAZING.
In a couple of minutes I was ready to turn the intensity up. Hallelujah, the Pleasure Air Technology that this Womanizer uses is really something else!
I orgasmed in under 5 minutes which made me really happy!
Finally, the black and gold sexy look is everything to me. It is ABSOLUTELY gorgeous. I find myself reaching for it every single night that I want to orgasm. Orgasm I experienced from using it was big and overwhelming. Especially alongside that feeling of warmth that surges through my body.
Move over Guys!!
Womanizer InsideOut makes my world go around and around and around every single time I use it!
It is also pretty light, so I never tire out. So the next time my boyfriend experiences whiplash from oral, I have my Womanizer InsideOut ready to go.
Womanizer InsideOut is a knock out oral sex toy. I am glad it is now in my sex toy collection. I highly recommend it for anyone wanting oral and G-spot stimulation.
Who ever knew you could have both at the exact same time?
Womanizer InsideOut Technical details
- Material: ABS with silicone skin.
- Stimulation head: Hypoallergenic medical silicone.
- Color: Black and gold.
- Size: 192 x 120 mm.
- Weight: 240 g.
- Intensity levels: 12.
- Whisper mode: Yes.
- Battery life: 2 hours.
- Charging time: 2 hours.
What are other bloggers saying about the Womanizer InsideOut?
“2018 is really raising the bar for sex toys. The Womanizer InsideOut is without doubt the best air pulse type toy I’ve tried. The added sensation of the G Spot stimulation really lifts the InsideOut above the other devices like this on the market.” Candy Snatch Reviews, 5th April 2018.
“I really, really loved the Womanizer InsideOut. It’s stylish to look at, waterproof, silicone and USB rechargeable. I found it the most pleasurable of all the toys of this type I have tried so far. Bottom line: if you’d like a bit of internal stimulation with some fantastic clitoral stimulation, the Womanizer InsideOut could be your new favourite toy.” Miss Jezebella, 16th February 2018.
“With the InsideOut I get strong stimulation exactly where I want it, and I only have to use one hand. If I keep my drawers on and try to lie still I can play hands-free. I’ve given myself so many orgasms with this thing and it’s almost funny how effortless they’ve been. God, I love it.” Scandarella, 21st March 2018.
About Womanizer
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Womanizer products are made with every different type of woman in mind. They understand that every woman is equal and they are all equally precious. Their products help people enjoy being themselves, making you come first.
Womanizer products are designed ergonomically for different body types with an emphasise towards peoplen ot changing for the products that they choose. But instead the products having the ability to adapt to the body that it is being used on.
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